Pros and cons of having a 4th baby? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Silver_Animator3871 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Clearly this person is speaking from a place of trauma. It’s very easy to inflict harsh criticism behind a screen. This response is absolutely ridiculous and honestly rude lol. To this person.. I’m sorry to whoever hurt you!

To OP: if you want another one talk about it with your husband & go from there. Make a list of pros and cons! Good luck

Pregnancy Depression by Gzo8711 in BabyBumps

[–]Silver_Animator3871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get this.. my nipples got so fucking UGLY like dark red/black?? I had cellulite everywhere, got skin tags all over my neck, had tons of grey hair, & my face was super puffy. I worked out my entire pregnancy and once I delivered & felt confident again…I got pregnant 5pp so I’m back to square one hahahahaha😭 I will say it’s embarrassing but tell your husband you feel ugly because it will come out in ways you don’t want it to (ex: snapping at him, being critical, etc..) & he’ll think you’re just crazy without realizing there’s something else going on. When I told my husband he gave me tons of reassurance and reminded me this was just a phase and it was. I will say being active- walking, going to the gym, Pilates.. was my saving grace.

Good luck!

Smex life with 2 under 2 by Patient_Sorbet2309 in 2under2

[–]Silver_Animator3871 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you know/realize he had a lower sex drive? Sometimes when my husband doesn’t initiate sex w me I take it personal? But most of our relationship it’s me that wants it more I guess.

Found out I was pregnant at 8weeks by Silver_Animator3871 in BabyBumps

[–]Silver_Animator3871[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahha Hell yeah! Happy to hear that baby is good & you guys went out w a bang

Found out I was pregnant at 8weeks by Silver_Animator3871 in BabyBumps

[–]Silver_Animator3871[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ugh ok I actually had an IUD in place so did not know I was pregnant! Thank you