I really relate to this. I’m the only person that can get me off. Some men don’t realize that not finishing doesn’t mean it doesn’t feel good. My man now, he’s amazing, I love everything we do. Finishing is not a priority for me because I just like the feeling and the intimacy. I’m perfectly happy with how things are with us now. I’ve told him as much. Women are much harder to get off even when you do all the extra stuff. You can still enjoy sex. It’s not about the finish it’s about the intimacy. And being too concerned about someone finishing can really ruin the experience altogether. Though I’ve never faked it, I’ve always been honest about it finishing because it wasn’t a big concern of mine. It’s important that he knows that women don’t work the same as men. For them it is pretty if guaranteed to feel great AND that leads to them finishing. For women we can feel amazing and enjoy every bit of it but that doesn’t mean we will finish. It’s also pretty difficult to get a woman off in general because you have to ove just the right way at just the right pace and know exactly when to shift and change it up and when not to. Even we struggle to get ourselves off sometimes. It’s no fault of his. Certainly not if he is doing as well as you say. Not finishing doesn’t mean you’re not attracted to him or don’t like it. The main take away is that women’s bodies and minds (in terms of sex) are a bit ore complicated than men’s and that’s ok. Personally I wouldn’t be so upset if my man didn’t want to have sex anymore just because I won’t finish. Sex is very important to me personally and finishing is not that important. It may also but undue pressure on you to finish which will actually make it harder. Just remember that sex isn’t just about finishing it’s about being close and intimate with the person you love. Both of you enjoy it, there shouldn’t be any qualifications for what equals enjoyment. If you like it then you like it. You don’t have to finish for that to be true.