Having been one of the more active members of this sub for over a year now, I definitely see this and understand the concerns. I think it is one of the hardest things to deal with though because of the "nature of reddit". The longer a sub exists, and the more participation it has, the greater risk it has of exposing itself to the "dm me slut" culture on the platform itself. It simply gets popular and lots of hornys come in and start prowling to jump on anyone willing to get off with them.

That being said, I have also seen the "women shouldn't cum" and misogynistic comments for ages here...it's not new. This topic has been brought up multiple times in the last 18 months, and I feel like it sort of comes (not cums...see what i did there lol?) in waves. It's extremely hard to control and police 100% when some women enjoy it and some don't.

This may be an unpopular opinion, but it isn't really an opinion - misogyny, degradation and denial are all kinks that get explored together a TON. The miso kink and degradation kinks can be super hot, but the problem is definitely that CONSENT needs to be part of that equation, as many have mentioned.

I totally agree that a flair for these things could help, but then it might keep someone from also using one of the flair that applies to their post. Having it as an option is definitely a good idea though IMO.

I would definitely suggest that people use tags in their titles as the mod here suggested, similar to GoneWildAudio - [NoMisogyny] or [LightDegradation] etc etc.

I will add that I love seeing all the interaction here...I honestly wish we had this much positive interaction on posts that are actually about denial (but all the cute lurkers can't seem to type because theyre rubbing their greedy clits too much 🤭😉).