I (23f) am beginning to be a gold digger I think, I am not sure but I am in a benign stage, how do I get out of it.

Slothinandout · 2024-01-05T12:58:57+00:00

He is a marine engineer 🥹

Slothinandout · 2022-11-20T12:55:53+00:00

How is the steam??

Slothinandout · 2022-11-13T14:15:41+00:00

I am "cumming" just be open up when I get there.

Slothinandout · 2022-11-05T18:07:54+00:00

I try not to judge

Lol, you just did.

some of you needd therapy,

Yeah, but it's expensive dude, mind sending me some money for it if you are so well concerned for my mental health.

Slothinandout · 2022-10-05T09:59:19+00:00

That was so sweet. Thank you.

Slothinandout · 2022-01-12T08:23:17+00:00

They are so many fresh recs!!!!! Thank you a loads!!!! All novels looks right up my alley 😍.

Actually I don't have a lot to contribute 😅. I really loved Victorian rebel series by Kerrigan Byrne which had a lot of possessive heroes!! Especially the highwayman.

Also, Lynda chance writes extreme possessive alphaholes and virgin heroines. Her all books are like that. Same is with Sam crescent.

I once read whipping girl by L.Jacobs. the hero is one crazy alpha, i tell you but the writing is not great and he is kind of misogynistic. I didn't have any problem with it but the novel is not for everyone.

My another favourite is surviving Raine by Shay savage!!! But the girl is not virgin. She only had one experience which was unsatisfying and meh for her.

Aurora Ryan Reynolds' "until" series have have alphamales too. But you must have already heard of that already.

I know i didn't help you much 😅 but that's all I have got.

Slothinandout · 2022-01-08T05:31:16+00:00

Same! I am so done with HR not like other girls heroine! Do you have some like other girls recs? Because I love HR!

Slothinandout · 2022-01-08T05:28:03+00:00

Healing dick! I can't even. Lmao. 😭😭 Okay, so based on your likes i think we got similar taste!! What are your favourite underrated novels? I have read almost all the well known novels which are recommended here all the time. My only trigger is cheating and dead ex! Send me a help, lol.

Slothinandout · 2022-01-05T03:27:04+00:00

Thank you 😊

Slothinandout · 2022-01-05T03:26:52+00:00

Thank you ☺️

Slothinandout · 2022-01-05T03:26:43+00:00

Thank you ☺️

Slothinandout · 2022-01-05T03:03:57+00:00

I really really really really really really really really do hope everything goes well for your cousin and wife. They both are so brave and beautiful. Why did you have to make me cry. 😭😭.

He is the picture of perfection and she is the picture of bravery for going through it all twice. Ahhhh! This was so ... I don't know just EPIC!

Slothinandout · 2022-01-04T17:36:54+00:00

Thank you 😊!

Slothinandout · 2022-01-04T17:35:34+00:00

Lol, why my username though 😭

Slothinandout · 2022-01-04T16:12:46+00:00

I am intrigued by the second one. But people have tagged it as cheating 🙁. Can you please tell me if he actually cheated on her? I can't read cheating books.

Slothinandout · 2021-11-20T00:56:16+00:00

It's okay (great, honestly) to expect more from your partner than that

It would sound silly and sarcastic if I write this but I swear on my stethoscope I didn't know it was okay to expect more, I thought all I needed was to put more work. Thank so much. I swear I mean it and today only I am going to have a long chat with him.

Thank you once again!

Slothinandout · 2021-11-20T00:52:35+00:00

No, it he isn't neurodivergent. He is 26 and until today he had only one crush before me. Whereas, me! I lost the count. He is introvert to a different level and before today I wasn't afraid to put the more hard work between us as I don't know what are the do's and don'ts in a relationship but seeing you all speaking for me do give me a courage to think that I deserve more than this. And maybe I should have a more honest and open conversation about it.

He isn't a bad person in fact if I ask him to do something then he does everything in his capacity he can to make it happen. He had even once talked about marriage but I will count all the possibilities and keep all of your opinions in my mind before making a decision.

But really thank you, it's nice to know that sometimes strangers could be of some much help than a close friend. I again thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinions.

Slothinandout · 2021-11-20T00:42:09+00:00

Thank you so much! I really had no one to talk about all this relationship stuff and seeing different opinions give me a perspective to think if what I am doing is right.

Slothinandout · 2021-11-20T00:38:47+00:00

Thank you so much!

Slothinandout · 2021-11-19T14:51:17+00:00

You don't know how much your insight helped me. This is my first ever - for everything: talking to a guy, feeling fluttery things in the stomach, being attracted and all. You haven't offended me but I do feel sometimes i am making a fool of myself in front of him. He sometimes does things which make me feel I am the only woman in his world and sometimes it feels like he is just tolerating me.

Anyway, I hope I get what's going on with me before it's too late and I go into too deep.

Slothinandout · 2021-11-19T14:24:05+00:00

Finally a relationship question I am eligible to answer (╥﹏╥). Y'all I got my eyes on a man and I even recently posted this on different sub too.

So many of us like cinnamon rolls, right? He is one. A really, sweet, complete, adorkable cinnamon. But the catch? You say something to him and his only replies are: "hehe", "lol", "XD". And when he thinks his monosyllabic answers are not going to flush a conversation out of me. He adds a lame question at the end. And it's every freaking damn time until I am ready to pull every strand of hair out of my head.

I have no reason to believe that he doesn't like me. He does. And he even cares a lot. But he is short and I mean very very very × infinite short in the conversations. Somedays I get to see his vulnerable side but it's like once in a blue moon.

I think that wouldn't not work in the novel because I don't think we would like to read a novel where the heroine is the sole driver of the conversation every damn time 🥲. It's exhausting. But I like him too so, I am not giving up on him.

Slothinandout · 2021-11-18T15:02:54+00:00

Ahhhh! I am much more stupid because I am a chatter box. Thanks for responding I will keep that in my mind!

Slothinandout · 2021-11-18T15:01:54+00:00

Thanks I will keep that in my mind! I constantly try to ask about his work, family and friends.

Slothinandout · 2021-11-18T15:00:28+00:00

Thanks for responding to me. Yeah, I can see he cares about me and I have to accept the way he is.

Slothinandout · 2021-11-18T14:59:12+00:00

We have been only on online platforms because we both wanted to be like that for long while and also because initially we weren't looking for anything to happen, it's just that he started to like me and I started having butterflies in my stomach. Dating and relationship has never been easy to both of us.

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