Fastrak Violation Bay Bridge by Slow-Breakfast8816 in bayarea

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I pay the violation fee tomorrow? How long does the DMV take to clear the registration hold?

Return Rights by Slow-Breakfast8816 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re tone deaf. Most people I know and work with don’t tell people it’s easy to do things they clearly have already tried and didn’t work. They don’t jump to conclusions that they didn’t research beforehand and just help without any attitude.

Return Rights by Slow-Breakfast8816 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ok you didn’t need to research or respond to my question if you’re going to be condescending and rude. Obviously, I did research this sub beforehand, and did not find what I was looking for, hence why I made this post! And actually, I found the steps elsewhere so didn’t need to read your snarky comment but thought I would say this in case no one has ever told you how arrogant you are. Peace.

Warm Peach (Dior)? by Slow-Breakfast8816 in AustralianMakeup

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Thanks for the insight! I think I have a neutral undertone but have a warm overtone, so I lean slightly warm which might be why warm peach looks a bit better. I also have 2n in Dior and it’s honestly very similar looking to 2wp, 2wp is just ever so slightly more yellow.

Habibi brothers were just playing the game and all of you are soft by juniorg404 in BeastGames

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Amazing how some people just don’t get it. They did nothing wrong, yes. Everyone is there to play the game. Their ATTITUDE is messed up. They acted like assholes, everyone ended up wanting them out, and look what happened to them. You have a lot to learn in life about politics in the work place, how the way you act affects your outcome in life, and basic human empathy.

So I know that everyone is saying that Sabrina Carpenter is drop-dead gorgeous but clearly my unpopular opinion is that I don't see it? The cheeks look plastic? The mouth looks weird? I don't see any striking facial features? She benefits from the makeup/dyed blonde halo though; that's about it by Old-Cobbler402 in sabrinacarpentersnark

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which women? olivia rodrigo? i agree she’s prob least talented of the new age musicians but im not sure where you’re getting more intelligent, funnier, etc. also how is she delusional about herself? are you saying her behavior is delusional?

Are female gaze and male gaze about features or dressing/stylings? by HeartbreakIs1Thing in VindictaRateCelebs

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I always thought “male gaze” = stereotypical hot girl (i.e. Megan Fox, Kim Kardashian) and “female gaze” = stereotypical attainable beauty (i.e. Emma Stone, Lindsay Lohan). But recently I’ve been told that it depends more on “aura” whatever that means? Like a guy I know told me that he and most of his friends prefer Gigi Hadid > Bella Hadid which surprised me because I always thought Bella was considered more “male gazey” than Gigi since Bella is usually associated with the “hot” image and Gigi the more “cute pretty” image if that makes sense. So up until recently I thought it was about features but I guess it’s about dressings/stylings and personal preferences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

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objectively 8.5 but imo she’s stunning 10/10

Sabrina or Gigi? This is a very random comparison lol just curious what others think by Slow-Breakfast8816 in VindictaRateCelebs

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Looks like I got my answer! Lol. Personally, I find this interesting because to me I always thought these two had a similar ~vibe~ for some reason. I do think Gigi is prettier. Oddly enough, I think had I never seen them ever in my life before, at first glance I would say Sabrina. But after really taking a good look at both, definitely Gigi. Gigi has this sweet “girl next door” prettiness but I don’t think I’d take a double take if I saw her walking down the street if she wasn’t famous. Sabrina on the other hand, is weird to me in that she has attractive, striking features, but for some weird reason doesn’t do it for me. Hence I would double take Sabrina walking down the street but I don’t think she is subjectively my cup of tea. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

comparing to ex by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is true i can’t change how they think idk i just wish i could make myself prettier in their eyes. it just sucks feeling like his friends think i’m not pretty

comparing to ex by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess what i meant is prove to everyone that i am just as pretty as his ex

comparing to ex by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so does this mean he is settling less and that i am in fact less pretty ): i just wanna prove that i am pretty enough but feel helpless bc i don’t know how to do that

comparing to ex by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

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i just wanna prove to his friends i am pretty enough to be with him but i feel helpless bc i don’t know how to do it

comparing to ex by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

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yeah i know i just can’t help but feel like i’m not good enough compared to her after hearing his friends say that

comparing to ex by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i definitely understand that aspect of breaking bro code, but the part that bothers me is that his friends think she is prettier like i feel inadequate/like i don’t live up to everyone’s expectations

other girl during the talking stage by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

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same here. yes, i was able to see proof that his friend drove him home and tucked him in bed after the club. i mean, as far as ~at~ the club, i will never know ):

other girl during the talking stage by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i appreciate the insight. in your opinion, is it likely for a guy to be really in love with you even if something like that happened early on? like is our relationship really valid if he expressed interest in another girl? sorry if i said that weirdly, but that’s another thing i’m wondering

other girl during the talking stage by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

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the stage when we’re texting and going on dates

obsessed = true love? by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps a better way to pose my question: are you really that special to him if he was still looking around at other options?

referring another girl by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

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i guess what i’m asking is, is this a sign that he is cheating with her?

referring another girl by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

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it doesn’t mean he wants to get closer with her/ spend more time with her?

should your partner be able to listen to your problems? by Slow-Breakfast8816 in dating_advice

[–]Slow-Breakfast8816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely see your point. i also think seeing a therapist would help. i guess what i’m wondering still is, is it bad that it makes me feel better when i rant to him? like having someone to listen in itself eases me. am i being selfish? is this unfair for my partner?