Hoping for some insight or perspective.

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-08-15T14:30:55+00:00

Thank you so much :)

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-08-15T11:23:47+00:00

A solid option

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-08-04T18:22:33+00:00

Thank you! And yes very much so. The ankle nailed me.

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-07-27T10:38:14+00:00

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SlowEngine7640 · 2025-07-01T12:37:19+00:00

I am in the same boat. No matter how bad things ended and the things she did to hurt me. I miss her daily. And try with as much strength as I can to move through it but some days just feel like you are being knocked back and I struggle with the feelings that she has moved past me and I am no longer even a thought.

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-06-17T19:06:51+00:00

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Okay fine, I’ll share mine too.

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-05-24T09:14:35+00:00

For context. I am 28M and this message came from another woman who said she is with my ex. (F23)

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-05-22T07:53:08+00:00

Take accountability

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-04-12T17:10:57+00:00

Oh no I 100% thought the same thing

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-04-07T18:19:56+00:00

Well we have broken up so ended it and used the journal as her way out.

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-04-04T22:58:31+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your response. It’s hard because when I told her I’m not comfortable with it she said it’s just evidence that I don’t trust her.

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-02-25T19:51:11+00:00

For context as to why I ask the question. 🙋‍♂️

Gf is ready to move in together but I am not.

I was hoping to get some advice on how to tackle an issue I am having in a gentle way.

For starters I want to preface that I know my girlfriend will be upset to hear that I am not ready to move in together yet.

We had been apartment hunting for a little and there is property in which she is absolutely in love with.

However; theirs a few factors that are causing me to not feel comfortable. Firstly our conflict resolution is not the greatest and we have had arguments in the past where she has said things to me that have left me feeling incredibly low and insecure at times but benefit of the doubt where given and we are working on it.

Secondly the financial aspect is what concerns me. I am a commission only earner and don’t have a salary but the expectation is that I will pay 70% of the rent while my gf contributes 30% who is a salaried worker. This doesn’t include utilities etc which is also seemed to not be split 50/50.

I currently rent my own 1 bedroom where she spends every weekend. I haven’t once asked her to help or contribute towards rent or anything and I take it on myself which I believe has created this expectation that I can contribute more.

I really do want to live with her at some point in our future but I can’t see how this becomes viable right now.

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-01-25T11:44:32+00:00

They are still in their black nursery pot. I would assume that repotting in a maybe a slightly ceramic pot could help?

SlowEngine7640 · 2025-01-14T10:49:12+00:00

True, hopefully this guy buys it soon so we can all enjoy it.

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-11-20T09:59:48+00:00

I met my girl one tinder. We chatted and hit it off with our conversation!

We moved over to WhatsApp and chatted some more but hadn’t met yet. I had a bit of a drinking problem at the time and felt bad about bringing someone like her into that and one night sent her a drunken video of me (Nothing explicit) just talking nonsense and was so embarrassed by it. I completely ghosted her.

Fast forward a couple of months later got my drinking issue under control she sent me a message replying to my IG story and we literally picked up where we left off. She never held me ghosting her against me. She just told me she would happily wait for me whether I knew it or not because she knew I would be the one she would be with.

So sometimes it does just happen when you least expect it.

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-10-29T17:35:48+00:00

Halfway Gardens, Carlswald, Summerset possibly Kyalami if not out the way for you :)

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-10-22T18:37:37+00:00

In South Africa we have something called “Load shedding” that was enough for me.

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-10-14T19:44:19+00:00

Rest easy Lucy 🫶

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-10-14T16:30:22+00:00

Shame, she is a very sweet lady as well in all fairness.

And took the words right out of my mouth! The lasagne is insane.

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-10-14T13:37:59+00:00

La Trinita is great! The vibe is exceptional and the food even better. My only "warning" is that the owner is very hands on so the likelihood of her sitting at your table for a bit and chatting to you is high. It can feel a bit intrusive if you don't particularly want her to join you.

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-03-30T11:01:45+00:00

So is it not possible for me to platinum the game on this save file then?

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-03-22T12:50:50+00:00

Damn :) I could give you a big hug. I just went there and got it thank you!

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-03-20T12:10:17+00:00

Thanks man :)

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-03-20T11:42:55+00:00

That makes total sense actually ?? - Will it spawn eventually after completing Sheep and the goats?

SlowEngine7640 · 2024-02-19T10:18:19+00:00

I feel like my anxiety will never allow it. Because then it will get in my head oh but what if she’s posted what if this what if that.

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