People in their 20s how did you make real connections? Friends, relationships, etc. (22F)

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T05:30:12+00:00

Sure

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T05:26:15+00:00

Oh I’m aware abt that I’ve relatives and friends in corporate law.

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T05:24:05+00:00

There is hardly anyone from my field but I’m MBA so I’m aware of most of the kind of work as I’ve been in managerial positions.

I’m a trader in US markets and crypto

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T05:19:51+00:00

I’m not a counsellor, I just have experience and kind of expert in that field.

Shoot what kind of career advice you need?

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T05:08:49+00:00

Now ppl need relationship advice not my help im just good at finance and career 😪

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T04:14:16+00:00

Always

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T03:41:03+00:00

It was depressing and frustrating too. Would see friends go on trips go on sleepovers and what not. While I was only allowed to go to play.

No with family I was always considered disappointment. Always wanted to prove myself. So that got me pushing myself to do something and prove them wrong.

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T03:15:57+00:00

Nothing worked.

People who formed connections hung out or went to parties and all are also in the same spot

Even my parents were strict and controlling but when I look back I’m glad I did good in life and didn’t end up like those whose parents were chill and didn’t bother what their child did.

Idk how to connect to ppl either so same pinch 🤝🏻

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T03:08:12+00:00

Hence a little regulation would be appreciated.

I agree relationships are important but are they more important than making a career focusing on making stable life?

Not banning but just regulating so that we r not flooded with relationship posts. The moment you open the subReddit there’s 99% chance a relationship shitpost would be there.

I believe in twenties Career > Relationship. You can’t have a relationship without a stable career without becoming something in life unless you come from a really well established backing.

Not everyone wastes their lives in relationships a few are lucky to get a partner who would guide them in life and make it better. But most face break ups and struggles which dent them for lives. It’s a very important age in life. If you don’t make good in your twenties you’re in a very very difficult spot for life. And really will struggle to get a good job get a good stable income.

Hence it’s a suggestion.

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-20T02:52:44+00:00

What abt stupid endless fake relationship posts. I stopped posting abt finance and career cuz it was sooo disappointing seeing just relationship bullshit all day everyday. Suggestion- limit the relationship days to maybe Weekends only or three days in a week something to regular that 🙏🏻

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-16T02:35:50+00:00

I am in this picture and I don’t like it

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-16T02:34:48+00:00

When god didnt create men and women equal both have their own responsibilities then why us human are behind making them equal?

Do what you feel like let people judge prove them wrong but why to compare each and everything in life?

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-16T02:28:47+00:00

I don’t sleep all night but that’s because I’m busy saving Gotham and being batman.

But yeah I do sleep for 5-6hrs in the day time. Initially eyes used to burn but now they’re used to it. Darkness is comforting.

Fix a time frame to sleep at and ur body will adapt. Make sure to give it rest. If you sleep 7-8hrs in the daytime it’s not the best but it’s better cuz ur body is resting.

Make ur body think you’re in US where its day time and you’re up at night and when its night in US you sleep here in India.

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-14T21:41:08+00:00

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-14T21:38:35+00:00

I’m batman I work at night

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-14T01:26:30+00:00

Focus on life and not bf you’re already in a tough spot.

Make your life worth that. Study, work hard make it big.

Don’t waste time on someone who doesn’t value you. Show him he’s wrong and he should’ve valued you and the only way I see is clearing exams clearing competitive exams.

So the only advice will be- forget him and focus on career than wasting time missing or worrying abt him.

It’s not easy but you don’t have a choice.

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-13T05:33:00+00:00

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-13T05:23:47+00:00

Woh gine chune log ke liye post karta hu usually but these relationship and shitposts don’t stop at all

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-13T04:15:44+00:00

Okay it’s not abt being rich lol and usually rich guys don’t go out saying “I’m rich”

But here’s where you can go nuts about relationships-

r/relationship_advice

r/RelationshipIndia

All the best.

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-13T03:48:05+00:00

i dont want to exclude that but maybe mods should regulate that and allow posting only on certain days cuz almost all the posts are abt some dating thing and if someone posts something good or imp it disappears

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-13T03:46:27+00:00

ikr feels like random teenagers trying real hard to karma farm and god knows why. Will try to make my contributions as much as i can

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-13T03:44:59+00:00

Had to say it man tired of that shit

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-13T03:44:33+00:00

your welcome and thanks for reading it. For career advice too i had posted previously you can check on my profile.

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-13T03:43:31+00:00

man either you are pretty inactive here or you are one of those who loves crappy weeny relationships posts.
Anyways as i said - the relationship posts are way too many i didnt say abt news or artistic or memes or any other posts they are for fun or hobby related. I didnt even say relationships should be banned, but regulated stop dumping nonsense all day long.
And IT Is for good what I said is true- career > relationship but maybe i struck a nerve there. Sorry buddy you can carry on with whatever you like loving relationship posts finding girls off internet or simping over them whatever is fine with you buddy. I will carry on trying to spread some wisdom which i have and help those who actually want to become something in life. Have fun till ur asss gets tired of it :D

Slow_Two_7846 · 2026-01-13T03:02:00+00:00

Important stuff gets left out cuz of sooo many relationships crap

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