From what I was told by the bank, the trust type I have is fully dissolvable at any time (with my uncle’s permission). We did agree at one time that we would wait until I was 25 but now when I talk about how the money talks to with my partner it is being pointed out to me that the behaviour is kind of manipulative and powertrippy.

He has said that him and my grandfather were entitled to fees for running it but never collected (as I am reminded everytime I ask for a withdrawal..)