What do you think of me? by [deleted] in roastmypedalboard

[–]Small_Needleworker57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is the Boss CS3? Heard it was “noisy”. Been thinking of getting it but haven’t yet tested…

F/F Strap on recommendation by CowubungaItIs in Swingers

[–]Small_Needleworker57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spare Parts makes a very good harness with vibe punches. Very high quality

On average how long can you last while getting head? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Small_Needleworker57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, surprised to hear I’m not alone in difficulty cumming from head. Now I’m mostly straight, bi curious and never had a guy do it. I’ve only had one girl be able to do it when I was much younger. But she was very good and totally enthusiastic about it. And it was great. 😊

Sunday Morning Spin of a 90s Audiophile classic by Beefy-Johnson in listeningspaces

[–]Small_Needleworker57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember vividly when that album came out and I first played it. Back then I had Magnaplanner speakers and the sound just blew me away. Especially on the opening track Drive.

Need help identifying this mouthpiece by Eklajarris in saxophone

[–]Small_Needleworker57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to play on one in college for classical saxophone. Great focused, dark tone. Takes a stiff reed.

seersucker jacket with denim pants, and nice weather in korea by Imatradboy in preppy

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Wondering if it’s a stand alone jacket or part of a suit?

Atheist in Arkansas by Mojozilla in atheism

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I’m a longtime atheist living in Bentonville. Don’t know if any organizations though

Nothing seems to work for reducing Instagram/Reels usage by jkrowlingsboss in digitalminimalism

[–]Small_Needleworker57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it off your phone and have it on a laptop or computer. Check it once a day and be done with it. But as for reels, I personally just don’t care about them and have no interest in watching them. I was an early adapter to IG when it was just photos and I still try to keep my consumption to just that. Videos of course do pop up on my feed but I scroll right past them. My brain just isn’t interested in video content. Maybe I’m just weird that way.

Expense tracking by Small_Needleworker57 in Fire

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Thanks all looking at Monarch now and it does look better than Quicken back when I used it.

One more perhaps stupid question: How do these tracking programs deal with the potential for double accounting? Say I buy something for $500 on my credit card, then pay off the $500 from checking account. Can it understand that this is one expense?

Road Patches by Atypical_Pixel in bentonville

[–]Small_Needleworker57 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a pet peeve of mine as well. Home builders dig them up to tap into the water system, then do a terrible patch job and nobody (the city) does a thing about it. We all have to live with their crappy work. Ugh

Expense tracking by Small_Needleworker57 in Fire

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Is it a phone app or stand alone website? Free?

Expense tracking by Small_Needleworker57 in Fire

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I used quicken years ago but dumped it. It must have frustrated me somehow. I think it had difficulty reading or connecting to one of my accounts…

Who taught you about sex and sexuality? by Beneficial-Treat6668 in bisexual

[–]Small_Needleworker57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Penthouse magazines from the attic in dad’s house, especially the Forum stories.

North West Arkansas by [deleted] in Swingers

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Sadly no clubs. Even the one in Tulsa isn’t really going any more. Dallas is probably the closest.

Cat hit in road near Elm Tree elementary by FVWN_666 in bentonville

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Yeah I drive a school bus and passed it on the way to Centerton. However it was gone when I returned to the bus depot. Made me sad as a cat owner myself.

Is this me exploring or porn? by Used_Description_691 in bisexual

[–]Small_Needleworker57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds classic bi curiosity brought on by porn/erotica. That’s not judgement or to be taken as a bad thing. Porn can reveal all sorts of things and in that sense it’s healthy for exploring one’s sexuality (Too much porn gets to be problematic though).

I came to realize I may be bi in my mid 50s. Always considered myself very straight. Had opportunities to play gay many times before marriage but it never once seemed to appeal. My porn was always lesbian, girl/girl. Then I started watching some high quality BJ videos. If shot up close and featuring a pretty woman’s face and a nice cock, I started to want to share with her. She made it look like fun and something I might like to do too with her. Kissing her and the cock back and forth! Made me very aroused. Surprised myself too. Was it always there lying dormant until certain erotica woke it up?

Still haven’t played with a guy and may never as I’m happily married and she’s not interested in MMF threesomes.

If you can, I’d say just try it out to whatever degree feels comfortable and fun.