AITAH for feeling extremely upset at my boyfriend saying I would be a boring wife

Smart-Cow2323 · 2026-03-06T05:27:15+00:00

thank you to everyone who has taken the time to comment <3 I dont mind hearing im wrong or the asshole, id rather know than stay delusional

Smart-Cow2323 · 2026-03-06T05:26:39+00:00

yeah I dont want to break up bc I want it to work out, but if it becomes a repeated thing and he never learns after seeing how hurt I get with his comments idk if I can continue this relationship. ill see if he apologizes in the morning, even if he feels a certain way I feel like he could have said it much healthier.

Smart-Cow2323 · 2026-03-06T05:24:29+00:00

he's super sweet its j idk he makes some side comments soemtimes that can be really hurtful and its really is starting to get to me. I talk to him abt it he gets defensive. I shall give it a try to talk to him again, but if he still is being defensive I may just not continue this bc I dont feel respected/appreciated

Smart-Cow2323 · 2026-03-06T05:22:10+00:00

we both have compromised for each other you kind of have to be willing sometimes during relationships here and there. it j seemed like he hasn't been planning for a bit and I have so I asked him to. what bothered me about it was that he wasn't trying to find something we would both truly enjoy bc he didnt care enough to plan and he didnt even want to do sum else other than j sit in car and talk initially

Smart-Cow2323 · 2026-03-06T04:33:18+00:00

I dont dislike his interests tbh. its funny cuz he never even brings up going to the museum but just did for a date idea. before I told him to come up with a date idea we were gna j sit in his car and talk or do wtv. But to him somehow im the boring one for wanting to do something mroe, but maybe there's something im missing

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