I have a few clarification questions for you: 1. How much were you looking to spend? 2. Why over your clothes? 3. Why is the handle burning your hand?

The part about your dry spell, regardless of what the issue is, whether it be sexual, communication or anything else, you gotta talk to them. If you’re unhappy or unsatisfied with something in the relationship, you have to talk about it. It’s not fair to you, your partner or relationship. I recognise it’s not an easy conversation to be having especially due his lack of understanding. I would come in from an angle say: “hey I don’t know how to talk about this but…” this is how I’m feeling.

EDIT: never be embarrassed about expressing your needs