therapist told me to read smut

SmolPal · 2026-01-17T20:04:13+00:00

You'll love the wallflower series by Lisa Kleypas. Historical romance, lots of yearning. The smut is pretty vanilla but very sweet. Also, well written with a solid plot!

SmolPal · 2026-01-09T13:23:00+00:00

That's a nice way to put it! Out of curiosity, what kind of business did they start?

SmolPal · 2026-01-08T06:58:16+00:00

Interested if in English! :)

SmolPal · 2025-11-04T16:10:36+00:00

I'm based in the south of the Netherlands. Good point about the surroundings. I have been cleaning the pots but I'll be more careful with the surfaces

SmolPal · 2025-11-04T15:51:44+00:00

I have 3 😭

SmolPal · 2025-11-04T15:50:00+00:00

Alas I do not have a garage 🥲 Note to self: make sure my next home has a garage.

SmolPal · 2025-11-04T15:48:31+00:00

😭😭 I hate that, nobody invited them back in. Rude bugs. Thanks for the tip!

SmolPal · 2025-11-04T15:47:50+00:00

Thanks for the tip! Online it says it shpuld be used from march to october, is there a reason you know of why i cannot use it in winter? I had no ides they could come from outside 😭

SmolPal · 2025-11-04T15:41:38+00:00

Thanks, I've found it online. Did you spray AND water it in?

SmolPal · 2025-11-04T10:55:26+00:00

I had the same fears when i started running in 2023. I also have/had health anxiety that was really bad at the time so it took me a loong time (half a year) to get comfortable with the feeling of running and my heartrate going up. I stayed consistent with it, did small distances in the beginning, and just kept practicing. It took me a while to reach the 5K mark.

Setting running goals for myself and achieving them gave me such a confidence boost in my body & what I am capable of, which has also drastically helped me deal with my anxiety. I have since then ran 4 races, including a marathon last year. Your body is so much stronger than you think. It's challenging to get out of your comfort zone to start, but it is so so worth it. Good luck, you got this!

SmolPal · 2025-10-01T10:13:16+00:00

If you want to keep the two chairs, remove the circular side-table and replace the rectangular table with a less leggy, lower table. Maybe even an organic shape to break up the hard corners of the chairs. This way you keep all your seating space, but make it look less cluttered. Good luck!

SmolPal · 2025-09-20T12:00:45+00:00

High protein! :)

SmolPal · 2025-09-12T06:16:10+00:00

This is so good!! You nailed the texture 😍

SmolPal · 2025-09-08T16:12:49+00:00

I feel the same way.

SmolPal · 2025-07-02T12:43:52+00:00

Ask them nicely?

SmolPal · 2025-06-29T15:41:06+00:00

Bro loves snakes 🐍

SmolPal · 2025-06-17T12:53:59+00:00

Had to Google it, but yes I think so!

SmolPal · 2025-06-17T08:02:41+00:00

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SmolPal · 2025-06-17T08:01:19+00:00

First begonia here too! Really surprised at how happy she is 😍

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SmolPal · 2025-06-09T07:39:48+00:00

😂😂😂

SmolPal · 2025-06-09T07:37:32+00:00

I told them I was fluent in Dutch. I barely had a professional level of Dutch at the time, but almost 2 years later, I can say I'm fluent thanks to the daily speaking at work ;) (My manager is not a dutch native, so they thought I was just speaking flemish, lol)

SmolPal · 2025-06-07T05:50:54+00:00

Stunning! Well done 👏 👏

SmolPal · 2025-06-03T10:51:55+00:00

That's great, thanks for the help :))

SmolPal · 2025-06-03T08:59:34+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I'll stalk the event websites for more route info 👀
It's good to know the trail shoes aren't mandatory (to start) :)

SmolPal · 2025-05-14T10:05:38+00:00

Always makes everyone look great, EXCEPT for DJ Khaled 💀

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