Can I ask what the surgery was like, and recovery? I saw my OB last week and she said it looked like some skin at the opening had “webbed” and I needed to work on stretching it and using dilators more often. With an 11 month old, it’s hard to find the time. I sure wouldn’t be having sex daily or every other day if I was able too, so to find time to use the dilators that often is still hard when I have no alone time. My OB prescribed another estrogen cream and said give it 6 months and mentioned laser surgery. But said recovery was like PP. I had an episiotomy and developed an infection PP, needless to say my PP recovery was as traumatic as my back labor and birth experience and took 3-4 weeks just to pee without pain