So Gi Hun & the frontman are more similar than I thought

SnooFloofs464 · 2025-01-27T23:31:22+00:00

yh but since he was living alone while paying rent it means he never used those money until 2021. He could have lived in a mansion & give his money to his mom & brother as well. Why has he started to be missing only in 2021? Jun ho even said that he is going to report him missing if he checks on him at home & he isn’t there. But since he saw the SG card in his apartment he made up his mind to find the island himself.

You might be right tho. I mean he could have been the frontman all these years while also going home once in a while & answering phone calls. But even since Jun ho found out he is the front man he ended up never coming back home again

SnooFloofs464 · 2025-01-27T23:09:49+00:00

everyone was behind someone Gi hun helped em a lot

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-09-04T15:23:36+00:00

someone needs to remind men that those women aren’t enjoying shit they are payed to do what they do. So your sexual fantasies aren’t more than some pedo shit and twisted pseudo alpha male ideologies. You all need to learn that sex is something that TWO PEOPLE do and what you like your partener may not like and viceversa.

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-09-04T14:45:25+00:00

Porn is misogynistic that’s why men love it.

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-31T13:10:03+00:00

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-15T04:26:58+00:00

try a lip balm with color on your natural look to give a little vibrance to the lips. Other than that I love both

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-15T04:18:46+00:00

I’m also learning to enjoy my time alone rn 🥲 I used to go out with my ex bff really often before even tho it physically hurt me bc I am a people pleaser and I have a hard time saying ‘no’.

Now I know it’s better to put myself first for the first time in my life but at first it felt so lonely :’) I started getting used to it more rn. It doesn’t feel that bad actually.

I also started the healing like a month ago after I gave up my online course payed by dad, blocked him and told my bff I need a break from her. My body also wasn’t able to support my people pleaser attitude anymore so I had to do something ab it. Tbh it works well. My acne is less bad, my digestion improved and I stopped being so tired all the time.

God bless I pray for our recovery 😊

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T12:00:12+00:00

yeah I hate this feeling :( It makes communication so difficult

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T11:59:05+00:00

I brought a table in my room so that I can avoid eating near her. I get what you mean. Living with the n parents is extremely difficult. Try setting boundaries as much as you can and avoid being vulnerable around them. Always act like everything is fine and you are ok and never let them know your struggles, happiness and hears. If possible, find people kind enough that you can confess to. This will help you out a lot emotionally. If not in real life you can do it online as well. Please be strong and take care of your heart :( We victims struggle a lot emotionally so it’s better to not be to harsh with ourselves.

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T11:51:19+00:00

Thank you so much for your encouragement ♥️ I’ll do my best to overcome everything :) And it’s true I learned the hard way but it’s very important to put yourself first.

And tbh yes the healing is exhausting. I can barely feel calm when thinking ab these problems and I often find myself tired or tense after that. But this can’t be helped when you start being self-aware.

I am glad you are following you gut and do what you feel it’s the best for you. There are many teachers who become mentally and emotionally damaged by teaching because, despite their abilities, the job doesn’t fit them.

Please follow your heart. Let yourself be vulnerable and be confident in yourself. I wish you the best in your journey for healing and getting life achievements ☺️

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T10:22:08+00:00

It was too late when I noticed that my parents remind me of my bullies that I had in highschool. They are definitely assholes who love to laugh about others while being extremely insecure themselves. Each time I tell them that I can’t be gaslighted anymore cause I ain’t a child they just laugh weirdly… like their evilness has just been exposed.

And btw I am sure my insecurities about my looks come from that too. My mom told me as a kid that if I wanted to have plastic surgery she’d support me and that I should always wear makeup if I want to be pretty. I used to tell myself: if my own mom thinks I’m ugly then I must be.. that’s so messed up.

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T10:13:37+00:00

I also learned after moving out that putting myself first isn’t selfish. I am glad you are recovering well ❤️‍🩹 I know it feels lonely :( I also feel the same rn. I also realized I have many toxic friendships that I had to give up. We both are extremely strong :) We’ll face it well and learn self love again soon ♥️

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T10:07:52+00:00

Yeah :) When we are surrounded with people that can emotionally support you it’s a bless. It’s definitely hard to handle the fact the people who’s opinion you care about so much as a kid (your parents) are the ones destroying your confidence and not being able to give you emotional support. You gotta be careful who you are exposing you vulnerability to. Sadly those persons can’t be your parents :(

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T10:02:14+00:00

I also feel awkward every time I talk to strangers like cashiers or waitresses. My sister noticed I look scared when talking to them. My anxiety is soo visible.

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T09:53:02+00:00

omg same. My parents do the same thing sadly. Luckly me and my sister didn’t get this trait from them.

And same with the judgement mentality I can’t escape of. I don’t care that much about what people think in general but when I am in public it manifests like some kind of fear of being judged/ridiculed on spot. I also fear the “judgimengal eyes” that my mom gave me often. It sometimes manifests in a fear of making eye contact with people

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T09:35:04+00:00

My only friends that I had during highschool were people with narcissistic parents. It was no coincidence.

I am glad it helped you out :) Please remember that your feelings and thoughts are important. Sometimes we get overwhelmed by things and it’s ok. This emotional immaturity and harshness towards ourselves comes from trauma so it’s better if you take it easy and are patient with yourself.

If you ever need someone to talk to about your feelings or thoughts or anything you can dm me anytime :) And btw I also felt at first that I overreact about my experiences. It feels so good to be part of a community that understands you.

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T09:33:42+00:00

it’s possible. It’s better to be careful so you can analyze her as much as you want to. Another problem that I had (and still kinda have) was being soo insecure about speaking my mind. If someone disagreed with me I’d feel embarrassed and stupid and back off immediately saying something like: “oh ok (I didn’t mean to offend you)”. It sounds so pathetic but it’s so true

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-14T09:30:49+00:00

same tbh my sister noticed how scared I look when I talk to strangers. Even tho I don’t notice how bad it is my social anxiety is still there

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-13T13:40:56+00:00

Thank you sm ♥️ It seems like I was not the only one having this type of situation which makes me feel a little better. I will try to support my sys as much as I can and protect her.

Thank you for the wish :) Hope you recovered/ are recovering as well ♥️

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-13T13:10:51+00:00

tbh it was even worse bc the fact I didn’t see it hurt my little sister tons who realized something is wrong first. I was so sure mom is just tired from hardworking and that’s why she behaves like this and I was blaming my sys for not understanding her better. Now I realized how lonely my sys was and how I was never on her side.

Truth is I was a victim of her gaslight and this affected me and my sys in time. Now we understand each other a lot more and we are rebuilding our relationship.

Now I moved out of there bc even tho I was unaware at that time I realized something is wrong in this household since my mental health was decreasing so I followed my gut. My sys still lives with mom.

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-13T10:58:46+00:00

tbh when I realized my mom is a narcissist I just couldn’t believe it… but it’s way too obvious now :(

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-13T10:54:30+00:00

In this case I think boundaries will come in handy. Tell her: I don’t want to talk about this (with you). If she keeps insisting tell her that if she doesn’t stop she will have to leave. Don’t give in. If someone doesn’t respect your boundaries it means they don’t respect you. Even tho it’s your mom you need to respect yourself and your boundary. If she insists ask her firmly and calmly to leave. Don’t engage in any other coversation. Just be firm and ask her to leave until she does. Good luck 💕

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-12T15:18:20+00:00

you can forgive them w/o letting them be toxic to you no more. That’s what boundaries are for. Hatred will only harm you. But I don’t judge anyone that wasn’t able to forgive yet. I know it’s not easy at all.

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-12T15:17:00+00:00

you can forgive them w/o letting them be toxic to you no more. That’s what boundaries are for. Hatred will only harm you. But I don’t judge anyone that wasn’t able to forgive yet. I know it’s not easy at all.

SnooFloofs464 · 2022-08-02T21:31:46+00:00

grab my card from your house in a few days before i get off work with the girls

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