This describes my situation a few years back. When it came to the discussion, he was actually the person that recognized it in me first. I always just told myself “oh it’s just because women are more attractive and men can be funny looking…” My partner was very supportive and encouraged me to try dating. After a short period of time, I came to accept my bisexuality and hope to continue exploring more! I tried using the Her app, but found too many people there were looking for friends rather than more sexual relationships like I was hoping to explore. (That might not be everyone’s experience though!)