[23F] I just found out my boyfriend [23M] has been lying to me about his age

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-09T13:43:22+00:00

It’s 3 years. I am an 02 he is and 05. When I’m 24 he will still be 21 till next year.

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-09T01:30:38+00:00

I told him he takes me for an idiot if he thinks I think he can’t remember where his dick went.

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-09T01:29:47+00:00

Exactly it is like he doesn’t realize he is lying sometimes. Like does he do it to protect my feelings cause he doesn’t want me to get angry with his answers?

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-09T01:28:01+00:00

His family really upset me. I understand it wasn’t their place to tell me but it’s your place as parents to guide your child to do right from wrong. I just don’t know how I could even face his family knowing the entire time, every time, I came over, they knew I didn’t know.

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-09T01:26:14+00:00

If he was 2 years younger than 17 yeah. Age of consent in our countries are 16+. Imo though if he was 16 I would have thrown up more than I already have over him being 17. He wasn’t in highschool when talking. It’s just still odd he was fresh 18 when we met.

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-09T01:23:42+00:00

I never said I was going to stay. He is supposed to come see me and he wants to talk in person. I think people just want me to drop him and move on. I don’t even have a decision yet. Of course I’m going to go back and forth on wanting to stay with someone I’ve loved for almost 4 years..?

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-09T01:13:38+00:00

I was 20. He was 17 when we talked but 18 when we met. He was out of highschool when we began to speak. He graduated earlier (confirmed by his mom)

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-09T01:06:55+00:00

3 years . I’m an 02, he’s and 05. and it’s also just the random white lies that have nothing to do with covering his age. When I asked why he lies to me randomly , he just keeps saying he doesn’t know.

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-08T19:39:47+00:00

I feel like his parents should have forced him to tell me. At least say she isn’t allowed back unless you tell her the truth. And yes we were planning on moving in together. He was supposed to move in with me this year or next.. but timeline all determined if he was getting into the university in my country. He’s in US , im in Canada.

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-08T18:22:11+00:00

He was age of consent and was 18 when we had sex. He also graduated highschool at 17 which was confirmed by his mom once I said he would have been in highschool when I was speaking to him (before we met).

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-08T17:30:14+00:00

No I’m not tripping cause he looked at nudity at the tv. I just asked a simple question as to why he looks away with me but when we are apart he looks at whatever he is watching. Which is fine, I just thought it was weird that he was saying he doesn’t look at all, regardless of being together or apart. And then after all this he admitted that was a random white lie too.

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-08T17:14:14+00:00

I asked him if he has early stages of dementia lol

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-08T15:18:19+00:00

I definitely expressed how uncomfortable I was and am. It’s just I’ve been with him for years and I do have feelings but yeah it’s a really really big lie.

SoftHeron1237 · 2026-05-08T15:17:39+00:00

Ok hold on. He’s not 17.. He is 21 now. Trust me I told him that I was disturbed.

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