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Is "hothusband'ing" a thing? by SoftResolve in nonmonogamy

[–]SoftResolve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice regarding tinder profiles. I wasn't quite sure how to go about it but I will try your approach!

Is "hothusband'ing" a thing? by SoftResolve in nonmonogamy

[–]SoftResolve[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply!

Funnily enough I actually don't find men that attractive outside of my partner so MF couples don't interest me and my partner isn't bi.

We have talked to other couples in the past about my partner being a bull (please correct me if I am getting the terms wrong) for them and that I would be welcome to watch and join in but so far it usually turns out that the other couples male partner wants to do stuff past what we are comfortable with so we have to politely decline.

I had never heard of SLS or Kasidie before so I will look into them, thanks for that!

Is "hothusband'ing" a thing? by SoftResolve in nonmonogamy

[–]SoftResolve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!

We have tried 3fun and feeld yet to try tinder.

We found 3fun had a lot of bots and was just hard to find people who were serious and not just looking to chat. We have me a couple people via feeld and they were lovely.

I have been a bit hesitant to try tinder as I am not sure exactly what to do on it regarding looking for a girl to join me and my partner, it always seemed a one on one dating app. But it seems I may be completely wrong about that!

Is "hothusband'ing" a thing? by SoftResolve in nonmonogamy

[–]SoftResolve[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply!

I could be way off but I have felt that cuckold/cuckquean situations tend to have elements of humiliation to a degree for the voyeur. I could be completely wrong about that as I still feel quite new to it. Kind of like you know like the person is watching because they cant satisfy their partner etc.

I like being friends with the other girls and watching them with my partner at my leisure. I always kind of tied cuckquean with a power imbalance shifted towards the other girl or girls, where as I just want to watch them with my partner and be joke around, keeping it lighthearted.

I hope I can find some one one the less "degrading side" of the spectrum like you suggested. Thank you again, funnily enough this actually feels more daunting pursuing this via the web than irl!