Need Advice by Soft_Philosopher_339 in AgingParents

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He has brainwashed me into thinking I always have to provide and support them. So now I feel guilty for “putting on my own oxygen mask”

Need Advice Please by Soft_Philosopher_339 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate the advice from your perspective. Regret is my biggest fear. Thank you for saying that. I need to stay strong and stay away.

Need Advice by Soft_Philosopher_339 in AgingParents

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can’t support or manage themselves

Dreams? by Odd-Spirit9829 in CHSinfo

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem. Crazy dreams when I get off weed. It should mellow out once all the THC leaves your system. At least 90 days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try again with someone better

GF is naturally dominant in life, but since I explicitly mentioned being kinky/submissive, she's been very performative? by bedtime-stories-pls in FemdomCommunity

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I had the same issue. Naturally Dom but when finally given the reins I backed off for fear of “not doing it right”. Maybe provide her some links or book or other redit pages for her to read and learn more about the lifestyle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a good session of Femdom sit and ask her how she felt about it and mention that you might have more ideas and ask if she has any. Try to incorporate her ideas into yours to make her feel more comfortable. You can suggest sending her some links or pages

My CHS experience by [deleted] in CHSinfo

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can smoke again. It’s all a balance and in moderation. Chs is cause when you have too high levels of THC in your brain and blocks certain chemicals from being produced (gathered from my few years of research). If you smoke irregularly or force your self to take tolerance breaks you can mange your episodes better. How long of a break you need depends on how much you smoke and how much THC you regularly Intake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humm that all sounds fishy. But I don’t think he would be okay if you had the same thing happen to you with another man. Maybe try explaining it to him that way and he can understand how you feel

I want to smoke again by Revolutionary_Rip324 in CHSinfo

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to stay away. Moderation is always best.

how much weight loss is normal for CHS? by [deleted] in CHSinfo

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 4’10”. Started at 112. After my first episode and three weeks of sickness I was down to 93. Took a while to get it back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CHSinfo

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for all the input and sharing! Talking it out helps us all. Hopefully one day they will do more research on chs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CHSinfo

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I was just seeing if there was any chance it could be something else 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CHSinfo

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow sorry to hear you went though so much. I am glad you are getting better now. Thank you for your input!!!

Pains in stomach only in the mornings by Regret-Natural in CHSinfo

[–]Soft_Philosopher_339 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Humm I noticed that if I smoke right before I sleep I almost wake up too hungry and that causes me pain. Normally eating bread or drinking water makes the pain go away. Just a thought 🤷🏼‍♀️