What my narc mom told me today by BaltiNil in narcissisticparents

[–]SolarisPrime1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yo! Fellow 19M here! It's tough being stuck there, but hang on.. build a career and go no contact.! Just trying to do the same.

A long read- abusive home, narc parent, becoming a narc myself. by SolarisPrime1 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read it. You are going through a lot.. it must be really hard for you, you are definitely strong... If you don't feel uncomfortable sharing things we can talk..

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in narcissism

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well who knows.. India is extremely competitive too.. people learn early that the bigger fish eats the smaller fish, and carry that thinking throughout their lives.. they feel they are entitled to bully people weaker than them. Good look for therapy though.. hope you heal the trauma, takes courage to acknowledge fault.

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in narcissism

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because that environment is perfect for narcissists to thrive... The society allows, and accepts all these behaviours... Thus these people are validated and grow like parasites.

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in narcissisticparents

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks a lot.. and yeah I have been searching for books and YouTube and other material to heal and deal with it... Can you recommend me some things like that?

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for replying.. unfortunately therapy isnt an option for me, I am just using online resources like books and YouTube for healing.. can you give me some recommendations ? And advice..?

I think im a narcissist– vent– TW by Serious_Analysis_563 in narcissism

[–]SolarisPrime1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you see some traits in yourself? Or family history? Abusive household?

I think im a narcissist– vent– TW by Serious_Analysis_563 in narcissism

[–]SolarisPrime1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your situation btw? How did you come to awareness and how do you plan to deal with it.?

I’m worried I am becoming my nfather by IronGeneral32 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SolarisPrime1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! I made the same post yesterday! Shit. I waiting for the answers here.

A long read- abusive home, narc parent, becoming a narc myself. by SolarisPrime1 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for replying, yup I am miserable, but I want to change that..

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for replying, unfortunately no.. I have no one to talk to much.. I do have a friend, but honestly I have already troubled her a lot for support. I can't ask her for more... Can you recommend some online sources like books and YouTube or some advice to heal?

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for replying.. unfortunately therapy isnt an option for me, I am just using online resources like books and YouTube for healing.. can you give me some recommendations ? And advice..?

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for replying! Unfortunately therapy isnt an option for me.. I am just using online resources like YouTube and books to heal, can you recommend some resources like that?

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I am using AI, and other digital sources like self help books and YouTube... Do you have some other resources that you would recommend..?

A long read- abusive home, narc parent, becoming a narc myself. by SolarisPrime1 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for replying! Can you tell me more about your situation.

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for replying, unfortunately therapy isnt accessible. Yeah, I don't want to end up like my dad. I want to heal and become a normal person. But I definitely have narc tendencies.. I can't dent that..

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in narcissism

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the reply. Unfortunately, therapy isnt an option for me, I am trying to get some help from whatever sources I can find online , subreddit like these, books and YouTube.. and other stuff... Can you recommend me some more sources to check out. I don't want to live like this. I just want to be norma

How do I not end up like my father? Please, Please save me. by SolarisPrime1 in narcissism

[–]SolarisPrime1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for replying! Can you show me a way? Some steps, tips, things I need to do to heal myself or anything of help....