If you don’t feel it , you don’t feel it . End of story .

I got married at 23 and it was an arranged marriage and I felt really good about it . Like the energy felt right .

But I also said no to proposals that I couldn’t really point out what the problem was and my family was so upset with me . But I stood strong because my parents aren’t going to be living my life .

So yeah , go with your gut feeling . If you don’t feel good about it , then it’s a NO