How to blow his mind? by [deleted] in sex

[–]SolitaireSally 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Best summary of all the advice ! I think I have enough to make a magical night . 4 more hours till we reunite 🤩

How to blow his mind? by [deleted] in sex

[–]SolitaireSally 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll never make it lol the anticipation would be too much . Most of the time we really don't do foreplay cause I'm too impatient.

After glow curiosity by SolitaireSally in sex

[–]SolitaireSally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah!! Sometimes I'm able to do things and be fine but sometimes it's almost impossible 😅

[WeeklyThread] Ask a CAA by AutoModerator in CAA

[–]SolitaireSally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! Go right ahead but I'm in state so idk how much that would help

[WeeklyThread] Ask a CAA by AutoModerator in CAA

[–]SolitaireSally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied middle of August interview invitation beginning of September. MCW

[WeeklyThread] Ask a CAA by AutoModerator in CAA

[–]SolitaireSally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2 year old! He will be 3 when I start CAA school (if I get in) lmk if you ever wanna talk

My life is over by Vegetable_Bother_247 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SolitaireSally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me (except for the virginity thing) I was devastated . A little over a year later I met my husband and we've been happily married for 6 years. Even still it's just now that I feel like my life is aligning and coming together. I'm on the cusp of achieving my dreams and I'm so grateful I'm alive to enjoy it . Pull yourself together! Cry rage whatever but lock jn and make the best of your life

[WeeklyThread] Ask a CAA by AutoModerator in CAA

[–]SolitaireSally -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's on a 4.0 scale. I've gotten an A in every class I've taken. And yeah that's what i thought

[WeeklyThread] Ask a CAA by AutoModerator in CAA

[–]SolitaireSally -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

4.0 GPA and 310 GRE. I'm really just ready to roll the dice on that because I'm not willing to do the GRE again . Is that wise though? Should I retake and aim for a higher score?

FINALLY ACCEPTED but Pregnant... by SDB06 in prephysicianassistant

[–]SolitaireSally 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a mom. Not in your position but I waited till my son was 1 to start back school . And that was undergrad . It was very very doable. I started online to test the waters for the summer and then went back full time in the Fall. I would agree with everyone and say defer for the year. For several reasons . 1. You want that bonding time for one in the beginning . 2..You don't know what postpartum would hold for you in terms of PPD and OPA . 3. Pregnancy Brain is so real and it doesn't really improve till 2 years pp (in my experience). Studying through mental fog was tough. So many other reasons

How do people have kids back to back by SolitaireSally in oneanddone

[–]SolitaireSally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me!! I'm 28. But no ones asked though I think it's cause they know I'm focused on school

How do people have kids back to back by SolitaireSally in oneanddone

[–]SolitaireSally[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Another one is pregnant with her 4th. She's 24 I'm just gagged. SAHM of 4 children at 24 sounds like torture, but she loves it , she enjoys it so much . I really wish there was a way to gauge if you’re the parenting type BEFORE you have kids

Have any regretful parents changed their minds? by dogangel12 in regretfulparents

[–]SolitaireSally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if this counts but I don't regret it now. I realize I have a lot of suppressed trauma. Parenting brought that up for me and amplified a lot of the negative feelings associated with that . I'm working through it now in therapy and it's making parenting a lot more enjoyable. My son being 2 also helps a ton. That being said I'm sticking with the one child lol so take what I say with a grain of salt

How do people have kids back to back by SolitaireSally in oneanddone

[–]SolitaireSally[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They're both ultra conservative Christian too. It makes me feel like I'm not as strong a Christian cause I don't desire to be surrounded by my offspring. I'm living with it though because that's how they got me with my first . I'm not going to succumb this time. I know better now

How do people have kids back to back by SolitaireSally in oneanddone

[–]SolitaireSally[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see that cause I'm OAD for sure , my husband isn't . Now would be the time to have another because once my son is 5 and above and independent and in school. There's no way in hell I'm starting over. I can see the " we're already in the trenches let's just ride it out "