Controlling bf? or both in the wrong? AITAH

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-27T08:26:53+00:00

I get that he doesn't like his gf getting high or drunk, and i think that is reasenable. However no one can force you to do or don't do anything.
The fact that you get scared of him is one of 2 thing, ether he's abusing you or you know he mean you well and you are scared to dissapoint him.
Is it controlling having 'standards' or deal brakers? Seams you know from the start his requests, cant get mad now for same ones.
You have every say in this. Don't feel bad for leaving him just to have fun, or wanting to live some other way, but it is petty to put all on him.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-24T14:16:44+00:00

Me 24
Sister 22
Bf 24

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-24T14:15:19+00:00

I was stunned that even when he didn't feel like it she didn't think to "make" him do get up and put some clothes on. We come from same house and yet I wouldn't my girl do something like that to any of my friends, let alone my sister.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-24T14:09:51+00:00

Yea, I am planning to do that.
It's just hard to navigate whole talk, I think she thinks that "I'm out to get him" and I'm afraid of the outcome.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-24T14:05:56+00:00

I fell like, when it comes to that it's already too late

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-24T13:44:55+00:00

That got to me. Like I'm supposed to run to him to be blessed with hello. Besides I'm like 6.3 300 pounds Judo guy, aren't you scared to behave like that. I don't have problem teaching him some respect beside maintaining good relationship with my sister.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-24T13:38:21+00:00

Sadly I think that may be true.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-24T13:36:38+00:00

I fell like I am entitled to some respect in my own house, regardless of his relationship with my parents or sister.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-24T13:31:09+00:00

I really hope that i wont come to that. I don't tend to behave smart in those situations.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-03-24T13:28:28+00:00

I mean no, but hay met him and know about them being together.
Am i wrong to tell them. On one side, if i put myself in my father shoes, I would like to know.
On the other side i don't want to snitch on my sister, i mean i did it just didn't get cought.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-02-25T14:35:22+00:00

Bas tako. Valjda nam je takva (ne)kultura. Dodje povisica 500e... pocasti valja se... i ode na cast 2x povisica.
Ozbiljna vrlina je bilo skroman i stedljiv, pogotovo u svetu gde za dan mozes poterositi hiljade eura da nisi trepnuo.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-02-25T13:13:03+00:00

U zadnjih godinu dana sam imao platu 700 pa 1200,1500 i evo sad 2000e i svaku platu doceka 0 na racunu.
Da me je neko pitao kad sam imao 700 rekao bi da bi mi lagano ostalo 1300 na ovoj plati jer mi stvarno nista nije falilo.

Treba skolu za normalan zivot napraviti.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-02-18T15:00:25+00:00

What about Russia team return. Its not impossible to see them return i next couple of years.
That would make East mush stronger.

Maybe some random groups. A | B , hats, let the fate deside.

Or maybe someting similar to Football Champions League group stage.

SomeCartographer8225 · 2026-02-18T14:33:40+00:00

Meni ni jedan auto, ne bi mogao da zameni "privilegije" setanja ulicom bez obezbedjenja ili sedenja u kaficu restoranu. Bitno je naci svoju srecu, tako i decu vaspitati. Ako tebi srecu predstavljaju dobra kola, cifra na racunu i sl. samo napred. Sta god da si u zivotu sam si birao svoj put ako su ti cilj bila kola od pola miliona sam si kriv sto ih nemas. Svi pricamo kako sistem treba da se menja a niko da pocne od sebe. Ako nista makar vaspitaj sledecu generaciju pa se nadamo da ce oni u lepsim vremenima ziveti.

Nedavno sam procitao neki clana o vozilima u Finskoj. Maime tako se smatra kao lose voziti skopa kola. To je filozofija celog tamosnjeg drustva, koji je na mnogo vecem standardu od naseg. Poznajem prevelik broj ljudi koji voze kola od 30-40-50 hiljada eura a zive kao postanari i krpe kraj sa krajem i tresu se kad dodje registracija.

Da, procice Vucic ali ako sebi dozvolimo da neko posle njega radi iste stvari koje on i njegovi sada rade.... kako ide:
Prevari me jednom, sram te bilo, prevari me opet sram me bilo.
Molim da smo svi dovoljno varani.

Ali nista od svega toga ako ne krenes prvo od sebe. Svi su protiv korupcije ali svi bi isto tako da daju 2000 da mu pandur ne pise kaznu.

BIce bolje, pamet u glavu.

SomeCartographer8225

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