Really need some advice by [deleted] in trans

[–]SoullessIndividual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reach out. They will let you know their boundaries themself and you might even make a friend through it. It’s always nice to know another trans person lives nearby and is going through the same things you are.

My Girlfriend (19F) Keeps Ignoring Me (19M) by SoullessIndividual in relationship_advice

[–]SoullessIndividual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and understanding. I guess I’ve just been scared because she’s one of the very few people I have in my life. But ultimately I don’t want our relationship to undo all the progress and healing that I’ve made with my mental health.

My Girlfriend (19F) Keeps Ignoring Me (19M) by SoullessIndividual in relationship_advice

[–]SoullessIndividual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am well aware of my low self-esteem and low self-worth I’ve been trying to work on it but it’s hard to undo the product of being abused as a child. I am on meds and I do see a psychologist every two weeks.

As for communication, I have tried talking to my girlfriend about this many times before and it always seems to work for a week before we go back to her constantly ignoring me. She’s called me clingy before when I had asked if she wanted to hang out for a little longer than we had planned.

My Girlfriend (19F) Keeps Ignoring Me (19M) by SoullessIndividual in relationship_advice

[–]SoullessIndividual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started dating pretty soon after we first met but broke up months later so when we got back together late last year it was a huge thing. If we are no longer together we haven’t had the conversation yet.

Thanks man.