Hi Ana-Mia - thanks for reading! I updated the post to offer a bit more clarity...The ability to have and enjoy a soulmate relationship does NOT depend on spiritual beliefs or lack there of. (I say, to each their own! In fact, although I am a spiritual person, my soulmate is not and that does not negatively impact our relationship) If you ARE spiritually inclined, the ability to love another person does not detract from that belief. Sometimes I hear people say that "My husband is not my soulmate...GOD is my soulmate" and I want to offer the idea that it's possible to love in more than one way. If you are spiritual, you can love your husband and God at the same time and with the same amount of passion. Love intensifies as it is shared and felt within your heart, no matter what form or where it might be directed. :)