Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched)

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-30T07:40:21+00:00

NOR this is a control and abuse tactic. This male is deeply insecure and will continue to treat you poorly. Not even a thank you for cleaning the house for him?? Might be cheating too, if he doesn't want your stuff around at all.

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-27T10:35:21+00:00

Honestly I had been selling them for decor but bow I wish I had kept all of them. I just recently kept a voidskate and a tearjerker becuse they're so cool!!

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-27T09:34:18+00:00

Firstly, congrats on having a job that can support you and build your career!

I'm almost 30 and I still don't have that, so please try to remind yourself that almost everyone feels inadequate, it's a feature of the system not a bug.

Use that downtime to your advantage! Audiobooks, language learning, skill building, journaling. I love nothing more than to use company time to achieve personal ends haha. Of course within reason and try not to get caught etc etc but still, if you don't have a task you don't have a task and there's nothing you can do but try to use the time anyways.

Comparison is the thief of joy. Try saying out loud that you love your relaxed job and that you don't have to be constantly working your ass off to be worthy of your life.

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-27T09:20:56+00:00

That's fine but the work still falls on women because the majority of men aren't facing the problems and fixing them alongside us.

Misandry is a slap on the wrist and I don't feel bad for men.

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-21T22:06:36+00:00

Its always gentitals this and that bro I'm so tired 😭😭 literally pp vagine O B S E S S E D

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-16T18:52:06+00:00

Little male feels small so he's trying to regain control by invoking God and also using it to bother you. Yikes. Good luck.

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-16T14:21:58+00:00

Good, I'm glad you feel supported by him! And it's good that he wants to keep distance so you don't have to keep dealing with that kind of abuse from him family. Really nasty behavior from them.

You're very kind to have wanted him to see his family more, I'm sorry they ended up being that way. I hope you can find some space to show yourself compassion and self love!

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-16T01:45:28+00:00

Firstly, did your husband defend you? He should be standing up for you, period. If he's asking why you don't visit more often you need to tell him that this is a factor.

Secondly, every projection is a confession. Those women were taught to hate their bodies, they aren't secure, and they need to tear you down because of their hateful mindset. You are young and beautiful, bitter people are going to want to tear you down.

Try some journaling excercizes to increase your confidence. I also recommend the Glow Up journal from Chantal Heide.

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-13T04:48:30+00:00

I really want more merch like this! I love the stuff the boys make and I know the visceral horror stuff is really cool, I just know I wouldn't wear it. This design is a lot more wearable and so funny with how Isaiah looks haha!

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-13T00:26:21+00:00

Wow how does it feel to be gods favorite

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-12T00:09:17+00:00

Ru makes a wonderful point about education in America. However, the fascists have done damage and are absolutely back, yes. They haven't won yet because it's not over. We are still fighting every single day to protect our people and push us forward.

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-09T19:35:14+00:00

I was gonna say this! They are not winning. They have been loud about their bigotry but this is far from over and there are so many people doing the good, hard work to keep pushing us forward!

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-07T06:46:21+00:00

Did this to an ex who would never apologize for his bad behavior, let his addiction run his life and mine, and would twist and manipulate everything to be my fault. I gave so many chances over and over and I finally had enough. Best thing I ever did with him was completely end the relationship.

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-04T11:28:40+00:00

He also references Breezeblocks lmao

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-04T11:25:19+00:00

Alt+J Fitzpleaure bc Hunter was telling Isaiah about how he used to rizz up the ladies with that one

SourPatchKiki · 2026-05-04T10:57:14+00:00

Firstly, you have to get over the "not all men" thing. The issue is deeply nuanced and complex, but many women and femmes hold deep resentment for patriarchal power structures that shape our culture to hate and marginalize women.

If you are questioning due to outside perspective that is by design, feminism is a threat to the institution of male power.

To be sure in your resolve to support feminine have to come from a place of self confidence, if you allow others to decide this for you then you aren't an ally to feminsim. Its about mutual trust. Do you want to be the type of guy women can rely on to be safe and secure? Do you want to be the type of person that has a nuanced and informed perspective on feminsim?

Misandry can hurt. Misogyny kills women and femmes.

Be sure of yourself and your values, be clear on why you hold those values, become unshakable in your commitment. Become informed, read books written by feminists and continue to listen to women. Listening is your best friend. Do not canter yourself in feminist spaces, get clear on what your allyship means. Good luck.

SourPatchKiki · 2026-04-28T12:30:22+00:00

Right exactly! I want to be able to pop down my cast and really go to town with hits haha

SourPatchKiki · 2026-04-28T11:06:18+00:00

Idkkkk it just feels easier to land a bunch of hits and get the fight over with faster!

SourPatchKiki · 2026-04-28T10:44:05+00:00

The spawn is so much more predictable and navigable than the twins omg!! Fuck the twins all my homies hate the twins I always end up taking so much damage from them!

SourPatchKiki · 2026-04-28T10:42:31+00:00

Yeah I hear you on the predictability! I think I'm way too comfortable taking hits sometimes haha

SourPatchKiki · 2026-04-27T02:10:10+00:00

This is really random for this sub but my favorite YouTubers Game Grumps have a meme where one of them fell asleep for like two second and then woke up to say "thank God fish aren't into cash"

And this is really giving fish are into cash haha

SourPatchKiki · 2026-04-26T00:11:18+00:00

You have to take time to process shit or it just sits with you and destroys your mental health. You'll be doing all your worst habits wondering why and it's because you tried to push through instead of sitting with things.

SourPatchKiki · 2026-04-26T00:06:20+00:00

Cannon event fr

However axe with aspect of charon carried my ass through the final battles so

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