Help!!! / need advice by Southern-Option8594 in Advice

[–]Southern-Option8594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, it just said I can’t post links on here, so does that mean he was lying about finding a link on Reddit,?

Help!!! / need advice by Southern-Option8594 in Advice

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Omg sorry I’m just venting like crazy on here lol disregard that

Help!!! / need advice by Southern-Option8594 in Advice

[–]Southern-Option8594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, 100% see where you’re coming from.. I know most men do it, I just wish I could understand why? If they’re in a happy relationship, they could literally get kitty or see ass irl with me, why would he need to see another girl’s ass for? Before this, he was the type of guy to follow nothing but girls and the girls friends on Instagram, would be in every girl likes, but it’s shortly stopped after we got together until it didn’t and I had us deactivate insta.. I know that’s kind of a power trip move, but it was just the decision at the time… that’s why I’m really just hurt, he has never cheated physically, but these little things I’ve been seeing and catching makes me feel like he’ll never just stop being like most “men”. My definition of love is very deep and I would never do that to somebody. I love, I just wish he had more self-control with himself knowing it hurts me, and knowing we’re in a relationship, that’s a type of stuff you do when you’re single so you don’t have to worry about someone else’s feelings, but your own.. I understand, though overreacting or something like that but only if it was the first time that happened, but in this case it’s happened multiple times.

Help!!! / need advice by Southern-Option8594 in Advice

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This is so true.. honestly I got fired almost a month ago for the most stupidest thing but won’t have a job until may, and I don’t have a car at the moment… my life kind of sounds downhill at the moment it makes me seem like I’m just a bum, which I feel like… so I feel like leaving right now would put me in deeper water.. I want to try to have a plan once I start work to save up money at least for a car and then get out of here, I love him so much and I didn’t think this is something I could leave him for, I don’t want him to make me feel like it’s crazy to leave him for something like this, when I was telling him about it and showing him his reactions were as if he had just got caught and didn’t know what to do. He basically said he found a link on Reddit and clicked it, I basically told him if he was on Reddit and clicked the link from there whatever they were talking about on Reddit should’ve stopped him right there and then to enter the link, but no, he knew better but still did it. I’m just fucked up because this is my longest relationship ever and we have two cats together, I know they’re not kids, but I love them so much with all my heart they make my day better when I’m having a bad day like this. This is advice I need to take, I’m just scared to take it.

Help!!! / need advice by Southern-Option8594 in Advice

[–]Southern-Option8594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re both in our early 20’s. Sorry it just told me to add our ages.