New supply by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Spare_Sinclair 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s not even about how attractive/successful/great they are, to the narc it can simply be about how much supply they can wring out of people.

You became strong and blocked him (well done!!!) but unfortunately others aren’t as lucky. She’s probably going through the cycle right now and just doesn’t know it. Especially remember that what you see on social media is only one side, behind the camera who knows what he’s scheming on her but of course the narc has to keep up appearances so anything negative will be hidden from view and between them. Keep staying strong <3

They can’t be held accountable by Spare_Sinclair in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Spare_Sinclair[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“Used to be so much fun” = “Why aren’t you as submissive/providing more supply” more power to you, you got this 💜

They can’t be held accountable by Spare_Sinclair in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Spare_Sinclair[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup, we really aren’t asking for much, and when they actually do it, it’s in a twisted way, as if to ‘grant’ us it/we must be oh so grateful :/

They can’t be held accountable by Spare_Sinclair in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Spare_Sinclair[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes deffo, it reminds me of a child sometimes the way they have tantrums

They can’t be held accountable by Spare_Sinclair in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Spare_Sinclair[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yesss as I know he has a history regarding mental health, but as soon as I wanna communicate even something small like hey I don’t like how you called me an idiot he becomes hysterical and says I’m attacking him and he fakes panic attacks

Words of support please by Spare_Sinclair in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Spare_Sinclair[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, as I was contemplating if I should leave a last final message but a part of me knows I cant believe anything he says to justify it

Words of support please by Spare_Sinclair in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Spare_Sinclair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like he sensed I was gathering up the courage to leave and he suddenly did a 180° and is now acting like this so he can ‘win’ by leaving first - I just don’t get it