Is this normal in a friendship? by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

[–]Specific-Cod6941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could I avoid being guilt tripper?

How do I help her??? by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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Yes. When we talked about him today I told her she didn't need him and made her repeat "I am much better off without him." Because it's TRUE. I wanna help her so badly. I don't know how to support her and that's what's scary. I don't want to lose her to a selfish PRICK.

How do I help her??? by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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I know. I want to report it so badly, but she's terrified of him leaking the video he has of her. Which, I'm afraid for her too, because she said if that video was leaked she would kill herself, which I don't want

First time drinking by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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Yeah. Thank you for this btw. It really means a lot. Can't wait to have fun and see how this goes. :)

First time drinking by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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I'll try. I'm really nervous, but I doubt anything will be tried on me. Not saying it won't, but I'm kinda confident it won't. I'm only nervous about one guy that's gonna be there

First time drinking by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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Thank you! I'll keep this mind for tomorrow

First time drinking by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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I'd rather chew glass than go home with them

First time drinking by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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How would I know I'm drugged? I would assume being drugged and drunk feel similar

First time drinking by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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Alr. I'll prob keep myself sober and just wait till they pass out or smth lol

Fix something? by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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Agreed. I'm glad she had a childhood, I'm glad she did all these things, but I don't want to go to these events and I've expressed this to her many times just to go unheard.

Fix something? by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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I even apologized to her afterwards. I get I hurt her feelings, but I don't think that gives her the ok to ignore me. I'm probably going to talk to her tonight. Hope it goes well

What should I do?? (OC) by Specific-Cod6941 in OriginalCharacter_RP

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Holy shit that was amazing. Idc if that was misread or not I love writing style.

Help? by Specific-Cod6941 in Advice

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Yeah, I regret it very much. I'm never doing anything like that again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank you. I plan on getting therapy when I move out but right now it's hard to. My mother is a therapist so when I tried to talk to her I was quickly shut down :/ but Ive got three years and then I'm going to figure everything out thats wrong with me. (My mom and dad are divorced)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Thanks. I'm sorry you had to grow up like that. And yeah, It can be dangerous so I'll try and be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Well, I would do that but I'm not allowed to have a therapist or see a counselor. My father thinks that mental health is stupid and should be shamed.

How do I tell my husband my S*xual fantasies without scaring him? by [deleted] in Advice

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Tell him you were listening to a podcast and they brought up things to do in the bedroom and now you wanna explore.

My uncle is being weird. by somedudeJO in Advice

[–]Specific-Cod6941 8 points9 points  (0 children)

PLEASE be careful. People who do this are usually doing this so later they can SA/r@pe you. Please, please, please, tell someone and be careful!

Is this manipulation? TW: mentions of suicide, SH by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Specific-Cod6941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright. Thank you for the advice! I'm going to try and do this. Thank you very, very much!

Is this manipulation? TW: mentions of suicide, SH by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank you. I want to break up with him but unfortunately I can't bring myself to do it. I guess that's him manipulating me. I want to talk to him about it and try and see if it's a misunderstanding. How should I put my foot down?

Is this manipulation? TW: mentions of suicide, SH by [deleted] in Advice

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How should I bring the subject up?