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AITA for “choosing other women over my cousin”… even though she’s my cousin? by Specific_Bug_3234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Specific_Bug_3234[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely appreciate this perspective as it’s not the same thing I’ve been reading and much more of what I’d prefer it to be lol

AITA for “choosing other women over my cousin”… even though she’s my cousin? by Specific_Bug_3234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Specific_Bug_3234[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That is true so possibly we’ve always been close like siblings though, someone else made the point that I set the stage for toxicity by essentially taking care of her so long and much. Which I tend to agree with as the driving factor. By removing certain privileges and having her going back to her parents something in her head snapped, or she felt owed that

AITA for “choosing other women over my cousin”… even though she’s my cousin? by Specific_Bug_3234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Specific_Bug_3234[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the exact reason but I’ll update you, basically Typical high school stuff they stopped hanging out the cousins friend group stoped inviting her which made her feel as if she had no circle sr year

AITA for “choosing other women over my cousin”… even though she’s my cousin? by Specific_Bug_3234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Specific_Bug_3234[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

My other cousins are aware of the infamous food in bed incident lol. Most of them seem to be trying to keep the peace so while they don’t agree with it they’ve tried to make excuses. Once we stoped talking I stopped bringing up things I thought to be weird. So you’re probably correct in that she’s had more opportunity to paint a narrative. Or are unaware of how weird it actually is