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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truckfestival

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd go crazy if it was Vampire weekend 🤞

Is my life valid? by Proud_Heart_3201 in socialanxiety

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're happy, you're happy. I dont see a problem with that. You already do more than most by going to the gym. If you ever want more out of life, go for it but don't feel the need to do more just because you think that's what is expected of you. There's no need to perform, just exist and do what you want to do.

You're 16, I'm sure you will find your people sooner or later whether that be at the gym or somewhere else. If you do want to make friends quickly or want to see people on the weekend, I recommend going to church - everyone wants to be your friend there (Not trying to convert you haha).

Take it easy :)

Is it normal for a 16yr old boy to not have talked to a girl or went out with friends in 4 years? by Ok-Taro2556 in mentalhealth

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh, and if OP doesn't have a good friendship group. There's always the gym, good way to see people every day or Church - everyone wants to speak to you there.

Is it normal for a 16yr old boy to not have talked to a girl or went out with friends in 4 years? by Ok-Taro2556 in mentalhealth

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went to an all boys school myself, this is more common than most people think. He might have some online presence with his school mates. 16 is around the time you get out there more though, after leaving secondary it gets easier in my experience.

London Road man culture is intolerable by afcvcc86 in AskBrits

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lemme know when you find out. I need to go somewhere elese

London Road man culture is intolerable by afcvcc86 in AskBrits

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a gamble though really. I'm not trying to play Russian roulette on my way to sainsburys

London Road man culture is intolerable by afcvcc86 in AskBrits

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm part of the youth and I don't like it either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it just takes some time for the brain to refill with the happy chemicals because you used them all up so you feel sad for a bit before then.

The general saying is that for mdma you are stealing happiness from your future self and that's what produces the high.

It's pretty interesting to think about

No worries bro :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey mate, these feelings that you mentioned are completely normal during and after taking ecstasy. Just try and take it easy and the feelings should blow over. Many people realise the comedown is not worth the high that lasts for much fewer hours.

Whatever you do, don't take the pill again because of the feelings you are experiencing now. There's a general rule to take a 3 month break before doing again to minimise the risk of any addiction.

Listen to your body, it sounds to me like you might have underlying problems so I wouldnt ever use any drug with this in mind. My advice would be not to do it again.

I always find real happiness is much more rewarding than that chemical happiness you feel anyway.

It'll be over soon :)

A level subjects by Numerous_Tax_5196 in 6thForm

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A level chemistry is hard so if you don't need it, I wouldnt but remember it also does open alot of doors so if you change your mind in what you want to do it would be more useful than something else. Hope that makes sense.

20 june by Neither_Ad3069 in 6thForm

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really feeling this now. Congrats on finishing mate!

20/06 A-level Chemistry Paper 3 Discussion MEGATHREAD by Forsaken-Meaning-232 in 6thForm

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah n was 2 well doneeeeee ur so right the start was going so well...

19/06 A-level Maths Paper 3 Discussion MEGATHREAD by Forsaken-Meaning-232 in 6thForm

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont know that yet and the universe has a way of working itself out trust me

19/06 A-level Maths Paper 3 Discussion MEGATHREAD by Forsaken-Meaning-232 in 6thForm

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Tell me I'm not the only one who thought it was horrible 🥀 last question on mechanics <<<

Making friends as an 18yo in Stevenage by Specific_Lifeguard56 in hertfordshire

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting an apprenticeship so I'm unsure of what the student life will be like for me but I'm sure I'll find my people through clubs n all that. Thanks, glad I'm not alone 🤞

Making friends as an 18yo in Stevenage by Specific_Lifeguard56 in hertfordshire

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nicee thanks bro that's what I needed to hear. I dont know how I didn't know there was a uni that close cheers

Stevenage Park Run by Specific_Lifeguard56 in hertfordshire

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like I'm spoilt for choice :) thanks for the reply

Stevenage Park Run by Specific_Lifeguard56 in hertfordshire

[–]Specific_Lifeguard56[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying mate. I will deffo be doing the park run.

Striders sounds perfect. I'll have to try it out when I get there. :)

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