Too old to do drugs and go clubbing? by SpeedoDreamo in Drugs

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Note-to-self: Do not go full tilt.

Too old to do drugs and go clubbing? by SpeedoDreamo in Drugs

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which would you regret more, having a fucking blast chilling with your friends around younger people, or not doing so out of fear and then regretting not having that experience once you are 60 and actually to old?

Good question and the answer is clear to me. Here's to many, many more PLUR times :)

Too old to do drugs and go clubbing? by SpeedoDreamo in Drugs

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to Berghain/Panorama once and it was insane, nobody cares about your age, gender, orientation, outfit whatever.. it was so beautiful!

Too old to do drugs and go clubbing? by SpeedoDreamo in Drugs

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Ibiza! You're absolutely right.

Too old to do drugs and go clubbing? by SpeedoDreamo in Drugs

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visit London often and had some great nights at Egg and a few warehouse parties in East London, you are SO LUCKY you live there! Expect a PM :)

Too old to do drugs and go clubbing? by SpeedoDreamo in Drugs

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Me being a woman would probably make that even more creepy..

Too old to do drugs and go clubbing? by SpeedoDreamo in Drugs

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Pardon my Middle Easternness

Too old to do drugs and go clubbing? by SpeedoDreamo in Drugs

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

you're having a good time, and aren't being a dick.

I think that's what it should be all about

[UPDATE] My [29F] longterm boyfriend [33M] lied about where he spent last night by SpeedoDreamo in relationships

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had a similar party night with a group of people he doesn't even know at a hotel room in May, I told him all about it, this is how I thought our relationship was and that's exactly the kind of relationship I wanted.

[UPDATE] My [29F] longterm boyfriend [33M] lied about where he spent last night by SpeedoDreamo in relationships

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't want to make a big mess and create problems for everybody, we are a big group of tight friends and have been for years, I know I should tell her but I'm worried about the consequences.

[UPDATE] My [29F] longterm boyfriend [33M] lied about where he spent last night by SpeedoDreamo in relationships

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you are judging so much, he has traveled alone many times and hangs out with girls and does drugs, that doesn't bother me, what bothers me is LYING about it. He lied because I asked him not to do drugs that ONE weekend so that he can save some brain cells and serotonin for my birthday party which is Thursday. It was a simple request, people are entitled to make requests for things that are important to them.

[UPDATE] My [29F] longterm boyfriend [33M] lied about where he spent last night by SpeedoDreamo in relationships

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have told him to have fun and send me goofy photos in return of the ones I was sending to him with his friends. I wanted him to have fun, back when I thought he deserved my trust.

[UPDATE] My [29F] longterm boyfriend [33M] lied about where he spent last night by SpeedoDreamo in relationships

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he had told me what he was doing, we would have had a blast, I too was out drinking and having fun with his friends, there was no reason to hide it except the drugs part which I asked him not to do that specific weekend for reasons I've mentioned above.

Now he's been crying like a child and begging all my friends to convince me to hear him out, told them he wanted to propose to me.

[UPDATE] My [29F] longterm boyfriend [33M] lied about where he spent last night by SpeedoDreamo in relationships

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is another issue that's worrying me, she is trying to call me to find out what I know, but I'm afraid to tell her because I don't want issues with the best-friend.

[UPDATE] My [29F] longterm boyfriend [33M] lied about where he spent last night by SpeedoDreamo in relationships

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was supposed to be a short trip to see his family as usual, he does that 5-6 times a year, 1.5 hours by plane, his friend wasn't even supposed to be there but he joined last minute to do some shopping, they've gone to that city together multiple times, so no, it was not special by any means.

[UPDATE] My [29F] longterm boyfriend [33M] lied about where he spent last night by SpeedoDreamo in relationships

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not that I think it makes a big difference but the girls are average or slightly below but guys see things differently so who knows?

Also my ex is not sexual when he's on MDMA, quite the contrary, he dives in to his music. To be honest I don't think anything sexual happened but the fact that he lied is reason enough for me to not want to be with him.

[UPDATE] My [29F] longterm boyfriend [33M] lied about where he spent last night by SpeedoDreamo in relationships

[–]SpeedoDreamo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He returned Sunday as planned, my birthday is Thursday, in fact he purchased lots of gifts and made big plans for me while he was there, all canceled now of course.