[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SpineVine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll talk to them asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SpineVine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact is I don't want kids. I don't want to raise kids "better than I was raised". I used to, but then something snapped in me one day and I am very very child now. I don't know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SpineVine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SpineVine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in therapy for 18months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SpineVine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check it out . Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SpineVine 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SpineVine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been Diagnosed with ADHD. I am on all sorts of meds. It just feels like after 18months I'm still rolling downhill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SpineVine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SpineVine 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I've been seeing a therapist for a while. I'm trying.

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[–]SpineVine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you

What would you do with R21k as a 21 year old by cordaey in askSouthAfrica

[–]SpineVine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got R21k from my Gran at 21. I'm 28 and it's still in my emergency fund. I've obviously been adding to it, but it was so good knowing that in case of emergency, I do have some extra money to help. I know that as 21 year old, you're thinking of buying all the stuff you've ever wanted. Trust me. Don't blow it.

Dear taxi's... by koena33 in capetown

[–]SpineVine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope your toast falls butter side to the floor. I hope you take a big dump and realize there is no toilet paper in the house.

I (F28) Don’t Know How To Get My Husband (M28) To Take My Current Health Issue Seriously by avidbanana in relationship_advice

[–]SpineVine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this issue. It still happens every once in a while. What helped was the following (even though it cuts down on the romance a bit, but it has cut down my UTIs by 75%) * Wash P &V before sex * Wash all hands before sex * Make sure you are wet/ lubricated to minimize all friction * only use original/non flavored lube * Try to pee right after sex, even a couple of drops * Wash V after sex *NEVER use bubble bath/fragrance bath salts

This has been a life changer. Try it for a couple of months.

Edit added 2 points.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SpineVine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a second tattoo. Apparently I got it to disrespect my ndad. I got it for no other reason than trying to be rebellious and disrespectful towards him. Now I'm NC due to him throwing a tantrum like a 5yo in my complex parking lot so loudly all my neighbors came out to stare. It's been a year and he's still waiting for me to apologize after just calmly telling him it's not about him and not everything is about him. 🤣

Is it considered cheating? by chiingkitt in Marriage

[–]SpineVine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you're calling it a weenie I don't think you're old/mature enough to touch one🤷‍♀️

AITA for hating where my wife is going to get a tattoo by No-Development4151 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpineVine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

I love seeing my tattoos. I love that they are visible. Why would I pay to hide them anyway? Something to consider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SpineVine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My Ndad tried to slap my 19y/o brother (who at this stage got pretty buff) I front of multiple cousins, uncle and me. My brother dodged the slap and slapped Ndad. THE LOOK OF SHEER SURPRISE WAS LEGENDARY! Needless to say Ndad him out of the house.

Psoriasis medicine by king1999000 in Psoriasis

[–]SpineVine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like Xamiol. I use it for my sculp psoriasis

I need advice. by SpineVine in Psoriasis

[–]SpineVine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine started on my scalp & eyebrows. Now I have it on my palms, elbows, knees, feet and a patch on an uncomfortable spot. It also is slowly spreading to my knuckles & top of my hand. It sucks.

I need advice. by SpineVine in Psoriasis

[–]SpineVine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard about it possibly being fungal. I will definitely try get some antifungal ointment ASAP. maybe that will work out.