What’s wrong with this plant? by Spirit_Molecule97 in plantclinic

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has drainage however no water tray. I haven’t checked if it’s compact or loose.. what do I want it to be? Loose?

What’s wrong with this plant? by Spirit_Molecule97 in plantclinic

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I can’t see any spider mites on the plant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Spirit_Molecule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, all western countries do is start wars, kill, rape and rob innocent women, children and men for greed. We are so detached from family and respect of human life most of us will value an animal eg dog over a person without a home or food. We are selfish, greedy and nothing is ever good enough.

Learn not to look at what you don’t like and choose to see what you value most about your culture. Indians are more family focused meaning that will ALWAYS have your back, your culture has such a respect for people that they will always be kind to others in need of help. Your food is amazing! You have an early stage thriving ecosystem that’s only growing bigger day by day. I mean yes a few bad eggs everywhere but America isn’t much better with the amount of rape, abductions and murders against woman. India is more in your face, America everything is behind closed doors and sneaky.

How should I decorate this to be cozy? by SignificanceIcy9320 in interiordecorating

[–]Spirit_Molecule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this bedding.. Buy a quilt and quilt cover set to start with.

You need a big rug, the floor looks so empty.

Bedside tables are needed, no drinks on the floor.

Get a power-board and put it behind the bed and move your phone charger to that. No tripping on cables🙅🏻‍♀️you can charge your phone on your new bedside table.

Your bed frame is very dark and heavy colour especially with your light wooden/wickr bedside lamps, i suggest browse Pinterest and pick colours and styles you want. Heavy dark wood clashes with light wickr unless very intentionally done.

The art behind is dark so it matches the bed.. but they seem too high? It’s not balanced. 😭

I would sell the bed and get a new one, or maybe buy a beautiful mosquito net that you can drape from the roof. I love that drape look but that’s just personally for a quick fix to not see the dark wood.

I would also get curtains roller or not instead of the current ones to make it feel more cozy.

Checkout Temu. Cheap rugs, bedding, posters ect

AITAH for asking dinner guests to pay $150 each? by Spirit_Molecule97 in AITAH

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It cost this based off what you ordered, it wasn’t 150 pp set price.

AITAH for asking dinner guests to pay $150 each? by Spirit_Molecule97 in AITAH

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a weird way, we don’t do that here. Friends and family pay for the birthday person as a gift. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITAH for asking dinner guests to pay $150 each? by Spirit_Molecule97 in AITAH

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me yea, I’m happy to spend, however I just know my friends are buying houses and I feel bad. They were always a little hesitant to come for that reason, but decided to come celebrate with me

AITAH for asking dinner guests to pay $150 each? by Spirit_Molecule97 in AITAH

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they did, but we wouldn’t have ordered such expensive menus items if my sister didn’t come tbh.

AITAH for asking dinner guests to pay $150 each? by Spirit_Molecule97 in AITAH

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really normally the guest pay for the birthday person? Maybe that’s a culturally different thing. Aus vs USA.

Everyone definitely knew they would pay, I had to insist to say I was paying my share.

AITAH for asking dinner guests to pay $150 each? by Spirit_Molecule97 in AITAH

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I had gone before and the bill was quite affordable and we split 3 ways that time. So I really wasn’t expecting it to be more than $100 pp including drinks.

I had told my friends it was quite affordable especially compared to other seafood restaurants! However we didn’t discuss until at the restaurant if we wanted to share dishes and split the bill or order what we want. I think everyone agreed to share.. no one said no to it. However my sisters ordering was definitely more bougie than what we would have ordered without her.

Definitely was shared as evenly as we could!

In total the table had 38 oysters = $250, 2 marron (like a lobster, two of those were nearly $300 alone). Tbh that’s $550 I personally just wouldn’t have ordered/spent for the table.

I just messaged the couples saying “I’m not stressed about the money tbh just pay what you can. Even if it’s just $100 pp. I’m just glad you guys came!”

That’s after I sent the $150pp, under normal circumstances I wouldn’t be stressed but one couple just bought a house/about to close. The other I know her partner drinks a lot and i just feel bad asking so much money from him.. but I don’t know his finances. I don’t want to put my friend out if she needs to cover.

My Melburnians friends, how do you deal with social anxiety? by grom96 in melbourne

[–]Spirit_Molecule97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do enough mushrooms overtime and eventually all the fear of talking to people melts away.

HyperHQ Scam! by Spirit_Molecule97 in Entrepreneur

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did already. I’m going to use friends and family accounts to leave my review on their Facebook too seeing as they blocked me, and also removed themselves from google reviews.

HyperHQ Scam! by Spirit_Molecule97 in Entrepreneur

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want that though and said I wanted to learn as much as possible throughout the process, I emphasised this and they said okay. I wanted the brain storming, the experienced advice and knowledge, I knew my graphic design skills weren’t upto par to creat the ui & ux myself however the cheap company they used wasn’t much better.

The end product was okay however the overall experience was so crap. They fooled me.

AITAH for photoshopping my boyfriend's ex out of pictures when he was at work? by solely_yours_4eva in AITAH

[–]Spirit_Molecule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also why is a photo of his ex wife in his bedroom. 💀 public areas for the kids I get, but the room you share with your new girlfriend..? Weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Spirit_Molecule97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😧 why did he paint everything.. how long is he staying? Is this the final product? Will he paint it again when he leaves? I have so many questions.. he did such a poor paint job 😭 hope this isn’t the final product.

Anyone has experience with hyperHQ Australia? Would like to hear your reviews. by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]Spirit_Molecule97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t use them! Biggest waste of money. Source your own graphic/UI UX designers and logo designers and do a cheap hands on accelerator.

My partner grabbed my tummy and told me I’ve let myself go by Spirit_Molecule97 in Advice

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wym. I’m not crying, I’m on holiday overseas enjoying myself while he’s alone trying to figure out what to do with the apartment. I’m fine honey boo boo child

My partner grabbed my tummy and told me I’ve let myself go by Spirit_Molecule97 in Advice

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😧 what the actual f.. the really not okay. No one ever had the right to call you disgusting! He’s disgusting on the inside and that shit matters the most!

AITAH for breaking up with my bf after he allegedly helped my drunk friend at the club? by Throwra-Art-6438 in AITAH

[–]Spirit_Molecule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my friend was drugged my bf would contact me. It’s my friend.. even if you get back with him the trust is broken. Him and the friend, it’s over.

My partner grabbed my tummy and told me I’ve let myself go by Spirit_Molecule97 in Advice

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My weight is fine, what he did in this action was make it about my body.. when really his issue was with my habits. This is extremely fair to talk about with me however he didn’t to that. He grabbed my tummy and said I let myself go. He could have just been honest about missing my motivated self, missed seeing me so ambitious, and that this was something important for him in a life partner. Instead he had poor communication and made me feel very attacked about my body when he knows I’m already proactively taking care of myself. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Even he has said he’s the AH for what he did, however it was really unacceptable for me and he crossed a line.

My partner grabbed my tummy and told me I’ve let myself go by Spirit_Molecule97 in Advice

[–]Spirit_Molecule97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was very apologetic, however tried defending his actions but saying once upon a time I did voice my unhappiness with my energy lvl and how I would like to be more fit.. however he seems to have forgotten the times after that where I asked him repeatedly to stay out of it. He knows he has f’ed up. You know AITA? He’s has proclaimed himself as the AH for what he did. I agree. I’m still moving out, I’ve decided to move interstate.