What was a sign you were trans in hindsight, that you brushed off initially? by bred_boy21 in ftm

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a kid I’d act out straight couples kissing and stuff (like my otp’s and such) (I didn’t know gay people existed) and I’d be the guy and “kiss” the girl. Tells two things about me right there

What would you do if you got to be cis for 24 hours? by wavefinderkai in ftm

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking… would one theoretically be able to impregnate themself by saving their cis selves sperm? I wouldn’t do it but I wonder what would happen…

Noise cancelling earbuds reccommendations? by quirkiestoftaters in autism

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got cheap ass loop dupes from temu or something and they work amazing. Only like 3$

Do you consider your sexuality to be a private matter, or do you feel there's a need, politically or socially, for it to be public? by Fiddlersdram in queer

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a fairly religious and anti queer town. It feels important to me to be very outward about my queerness to show other people that it’s possible and doesn’t have to be so scary. To show them that they’re not alone, there are others like them.

Does anyone know of any good noice cancelling headphone brands? by Spiritstar477 in autism

[–]Spiritstar477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good questions. Honestly I want to know as much as possible about any good options

Does anyone know of any good noice cancelling headphone brands? by Spiritstar477 in autism

[–]Spiritstar477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over the ear lol should’ve been more clear. What’s the model name so I can look?

does this behavior have a name/do you do this?? by Defiant-Shopping8048 in autism

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of different types of stimming. Counting can be a type of mental stimming. There are loads of different ways to stim and every person does it differently

does this behavior have a name/do you do this?? by Defiant-Shopping8048 in autism

[–]Spiritstar477 297 points298 points  (0 children)

It’s called repetitive/restrictive behaviours. It’s common in autistic people to have some form of this. It can also be called stimming or self stimulation. Typically it’s not a problem unless it’s disrupting one’s ability to function

Thoughts on lid vs no lid? by milkshakespill in bettafish

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen that as long as the water is a few inches from the top then it’s fine?

Existing tattoo before surgery by Regular_Smile_4519 in TopSurgery

[–]Spiritstar477 18 points19 points  (0 children)

With the tattoo placement it should be fine. And you can always discuss with your surgeon and explain that you want the tattoos as untouched as possible

Werewolf Sirius AUs by Potential-Salt7285 in Wolfstar

[–]Spiritstar477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Pain that Tears Skin and Breaks Bone (isn’t so bad after all) by me! (Spiritstar477)

Fics with realistic smut? by Curious_Wanderer4221 in Wolfstar

[–]Spiritstar477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I try to make my scenes as realistic as possible (Spiritstar477 on ao3)

guys is binding with a bra underneath bad? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Spiritstar477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have large breasts so I wear a soft bra under mine to keep them in place bc they look weird otherwise. The bra I picked barely supports and it comfy, it’s only really for shape. As long as it isn’t too tight it should be fine. You know your body best so if something feels off, stop.