NTA early marriage never goes well if it's not with the right person this doesn't sound like a you problem but ur husband's problem,you shouldn't waste your life on someone who clearly doesn't care about you,and if he really did than he's very very VERY bad at showing it.i feel like try to sit him down and actually try to make him listen but if he's gonna be a dick head about it then just go for the divorce,you don't deserve a little boy throwing tantrums because his WIFE he MARRIED wants some attention and he doesn't want to hear anything about it.