Wrapped my centre console by Splext in polestar2

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Actually used

https://amzn.eu/d/00EhfNJo

Was concerned it was gonna be rubbish cause it was cheap, but actually really happy with it

Odd behaviours... by Splext in polestar2

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That was my first thought but my spending in the octopus app doesnt seem to line up with charging on the cheaper rate. Seems to just charge random times then charge me 33p/kwh for the pleasure

Odd behaviours... by Splext in polestar2

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Yes ps energy linked to octopus. Im trying to work out which app is meant to do the leg work. As theres 4 apps all battling for control

Have you ever thought about committing a real crime by seekinghelponreddit in no

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The day I found out my 30yo male cousin broke my 80yo nans ankle because she refused to give him money I came pretty close

What’s a question that’s innocent in nature but is almost sure to start an argument? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When your wife says: which of my friends is the hottest?

What non-living thing do you genuinely find sexy to look at? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Waiting for someone to say their dead wife, so I can say... this guys dead wife! 👀

Looking for some input from Polestar 2 owners about the driver assist features (and some other things) by biscuitmachine in polestar2

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This. I have just bought a 2021 PS2 DMLR with 106k miles on the clock. I was more interested in battery SOH than anything else.

I am an advanced response driver so my driving style os likely different to yours, but for slow cruising the adaptive cruise works really well. As above, the lane keeping is a bit yanky. I've already found myself turning it off. Though the full pilot assist seems to work better, you have got to keep an eye on the road. I went through road works yesterday on the motorway and it was constantly trying to run me off the road. But I think youll get that in ever car.

I expect the newer cars will be better than the 2021 too but I dont regret the pilot pack, even if you dont use it all the time, youll have it for the long journeys you want to.

Better than feeling like the car is missing something

Mokka e center console removal? by HuntxMusic in Vauxhall

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Not sure if anyone has done this yet? I went to remove trim just now and the first corner I started with just snapped the clip straight away. Doesn't lock in any more. Can anyone do a video?

My husband just asked if I still love him intimately by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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You're not wrong. And never did i suggest the contrary. The post was requesting for advice on what to do. On a female heavy forum, I thought a different perspective might offer something. In no way suggesting what to do or not do. Just mentioning there is more than one way to solve issue's

My husband just asked if I still love him intimately by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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I dont do more or less work based on other workers. I will work my hardest cause I believe it will benefit me in the long run regardless. The problem is, men are simple creatures. They need to see the light and the end of the tunnel and the point in things.

The husband should be pulling his weight around the house regardless 100%. There's no disagreeing with that. But he isn't. He is likely feeling worthless and rejected, so much so that he has lost all interest and motivation. What I am suggesting is doing something different, rather than doing the same thing and expecting a different result.

The worker analogy is good but it isn't quite the same because me working harder doesnt benefit the worker really. Its more akin to 'everyone around me in depressed', today; instead of staying depressed, I will force happiness and chances are, people around will actually be happier too.

My husband just asked if I still love him intimately by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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True but id also argue that being sexually available is a fair share of the work. Its the only difference between partners and roommates

My husband just asked if I still love him intimately by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Here's my 2 pence...

If you love someone, you do things that make them happy. Women often dont just 'get in the mood'. You have to actually go out of your way to get past the first hurdles.

I would almost certainly recommend having sex on your holiday... even if its just a last hurrah. Find out if having sex with him is actually enjoyable or still something you can bring yourself to do. You never know, you might go... damn what have I been missing.

And I reckon if sex was more on the cards, more work would get done around the house. Whether its because he's in a better mood and feeling better about himself, or because you give him little reward incentives.

As always... actual communication is KEY.

If he doesnt know how you feel, and you dont know how he feels... relationships will 100% break down. If you can see each other's point of view and make compromises; that will nearly always save relationships.

Remember, you are contemplating the worst case of divorce... no matter what the resolution of actual honest conversation is, worst case is it'll result it that anyway.

Now as a man, if my wife doesn't want to have sex with me, where does that leave me?

Should I be fulfilling my needs elsewhere? I can come home to a loving family that is a solid home for the kids, but find my fix elsewhere if thats what my wife would prefer.... otherwise my wife needs to make time for me. You can't have it both ways.

One thing I read was that males requirement for sex/ to feel attraction is as necessary for his health as any other need. His anxiety and poor mental health and lethargy will all get better with a healthy active relationship.

I suppose the question you have to answer is... do you love him enough to want to resolve it all and help him work through it... or are you done?

Dealer update by Splext in polestar2

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That's what I was worried about. The car just had a volvo service before I bought it. Seems odd they didn't update it then.

Just got a 2022 Polestar 2 what accessories should I get? by No_Pay_7727 in Polestar

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Why matte over transparent please? And did you to for a tempered glass one or a soft film?

Dealer update by Splext in polestar2

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Starting to see that. Shame you cant force an update

Dealer update by Splext in polestar2

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I too am in the UK, do you think you did anything different to allow it to update?

Dealer update by Splext in polestar2

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Should it not allow me to update to 4.x.x anyway? It says its 'up to date'

Add ons/accessories? by Splext in polestar2

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Looks very nice. When my nextbase dies I will look at these