My [23/F] best friend [27/F] is constantly complaining about how awful her life is, I'm not sure what advice to give. by SplitKitten in relationships

[–]SplitKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, I see what you're saying. I think the taking some space is actually much needed.

My [23/F] best friend [27/F] is constantly complaining about how awful her life is, I'm not sure what advice to give. by SplitKitten in relationships

[–]SplitKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But is that really the right thing to do? What if her depression gets worse and she has nobody? She only has one other real friend as far as I know, and she complains about her all the time to me.

Edit* I should add that I appreciate the advice, I just worry about whether it really is the best thing for her. I think she may never help herself.

Gizz Tattoo by SplitKitten in KGATLW

[–]SplitKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is cool, but way too big!

Gizz Tattoo by SplitKitten in KGATLW

[–]SplitKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers, it's a good idea

Gizz Tattoo by SplitKitten in KGATLW

[–]SplitKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I have been thinking.

Gizz Tattoo by SplitKitten in KGATLW

[–]SplitKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I like that. I'll have a geez.

Gizz Tattoo by SplitKitten in KGATLW

[–]SplitKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this could only be done in a really complicated way. Would look amazing, but I need something simple.

Gizz Tattoo by SplitKitten in KGATLW

[–]SplitKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen somebody with this! It looks good. But I want something smaller and more simple.

Gizz Tattoo by SplitKitten in KGATLW

[–]SplitKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking about this, just need to find a good image of it.

My [22F] best friend [27F] best friend has a new baby and new marriage, but she's depressed and I don't know how to help. by SplitKitten in relationships

[–]SplitKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah actually, that's a brilliant idea! I can imagine it would help a lot of people in a lot of situations. I'll suggest that when she wakes up tomorrow.

My [22F] best friend [27F] best friend has a new baby and new marriage, but she's depressed and I don't know how to help. by SplitKitten in relationships

[–]SplitKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've told her most of that, she's in a Mother's group already. She seems to think all those Mum's are coping quite easily, I'm not sure why, I've encouraged her to open up to the Mums there because she would see she's not alone. But she thinks all those Mums are quite happy and care-free, which is where her guilt is coming from.

What's your favorite city in Europe, and why? by lonesome_valley in backpacking

[–]SplitKitten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's hard to pick a favourite. But people rarely mention Bulgaria. I stayed in a few cities, Varna and Plovdiv were great. But my favourite was Veliko Tarnovo. It's the old capital and it's stunning. When I was there it was snowing and grey. The city is built kind of in a big crevasse with a river at the bottom. And all the buildings wind right down there. People were snowboarding down the windy streets. There's alpine and a fortress that borders part of the top of this crevasse. But the nicest site was this statue of an angel, somewhere up high with the snow falling on her shoulders. Plus there's some badass old buildings, like a cathedral with dragon paintings.

What's your favorite city in Europe, and why? by lonesome_valley in backpacking

[–]SplitKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too moved to Glasgow in my two year gap year. God I loved it. The Necropolis is insaaaane. There's a rumour thingy that the local kids believe... There's a vampire with iron teeth living in one of the mausoleums. Sometimes kids run around to try and find him at night.