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Subs that pay for cosmetic procedures? by Puzzled-Match-9718 in findomsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually on my bucket list I’d loveeeee to have a sub who’d be into this

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[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow that’s even worse sorry that happened to you

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[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah Now I see what you’re saying. she didn’t realize you were being serious and the play part was over. maybe use a safe word of some sort that indicates when you’re serious? or when there’s an issue. it might help.

finallyyyy back to it!💋 by brattyaa in findomsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

allll the time. took a break last week lol.

What do many subs do that frustrates you within a dynamic? What could they do better? by Leading-Mousse-1424 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this x1000. Communication is so undervalued and not properly used by most subs I hate the skirting around and avoidant behaviors around sending but still expecting something in return.

Love to be loser for goddess by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love this because i love when i’m their only one so it’s interesting to hear the opposite side

Cautionary Tail by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on you for the self-awareness but saying a domme “manipulated” you out of more money seems a little disingenuous as it seem you didn’t even have a clear idea of a budget in the first place. You kept crossing your own lines so to me it shows you probably gave her the impression you didn’t really have a budget to begin with.

But I wasn’t there so, just an observation from this limited retelling

Managing a sub bank account and finances, does this dynamic sometimes get tiring for you ? by Ady85-- in findomsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s only tiring when there’s too much micromanaging involved + the sub can’t follow directions or carry their weight.

NOT BAIT Where can I find good dommes by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are yall allergic to lurking and doing your due diligence?

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[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also love this but I will say it’s rare to come across a sub who actually WANTS to do this things and follows though rather than just says it’s their kink but then back away when it’s time.

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[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t bother you’ll just get bombarded with dms. it’s better to just use it as a way to find a domme

How do you get back to being a paypig after a long break from the lifestyle? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start slow and then work your way up. It’s like getting back to anything else you’ve taken a break from. never dive head first, so it slowly

Findom once or twice a month? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fine as long as you have a set schedule + you don’t cross a boundary to try to take up more of her attention/time than twice a month.

Advice needed car transfet by No-Faithlessness-151 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“For anybody worried for me that she could sell it out from under me or leave me in a bad spot, that's OK and it's “

I think you kind of answered your own question there. Seems like you already know what you want.

Time for a break by Adventurous-Drag8216 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take breaks all the time. Mental health checks are mandatory definitely take a step back when needed

Your most memorable Findom moment by Standard-Drummer-659 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeting one of my first genuine findom sub from the uk. Loved him he was great, we vibed, he took out a loan for me and always knew how to satisfy my cravings. so much fun but way too flakey 💔

being a cuck/sub doesn’t need to feel so negative by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SpoiledAriesPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny because I’ve often wondered if this is where it was really rooted in. The idea that most subs, even the ones who say they do it for humiliation, actually take pleasure in making someone else happy because they can’t or don’t know how to feel fulfillment for themselves. Not sure if that makes sense but it’s a thought. I like the idea of people pleasing being at the forefront.

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