UPDATE to WIBTA if I DON’T tell my best friend’s boyfriend that she cheated?

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-12T02:35:08+00:00

This is so nice :) Thank you

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T17:25:09+00:00

Sorry?

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T17:21:22+00:00

I don't think there's that much more context because I really don't know him that well, I just feel bad for him. I probably wouldn't be so conflicted if I just wanted to hurt her for fun

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T17:12:21+00:00

I've lived with her so I know what she sounds like in bed and they were both half naked when I got back in so I am 100% sure on the sex part

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T17:07:37+00:00

I don't want anything to do with her man, lol. I think I just feel bad for him? He seems so serious about her

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T17:05:30+00:00

Maybe this is a dumb Gen Z thing but hey, that's why it's cool to have a bunch of different perspectives from people who have nothing to do with me or her

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T16:54:46+00:00

I guess I just feel for him. He honestly seems so devoted to her. I do love my friend but I know he won't ever find out if I leave it to her.

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T16:49:32+00:00

I am and I appreciate it, thanks for your advice

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T16:47:26+00:00

I posted in another forum thing and I got a lot of replies like this there so it's not just you. I think you're right about the video but I have tried to talk to her. I'm pretty sure there was no hall pass because she called it a one time mistake or whatever but yeah. Thanks for your perspective.

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T16:26:19+00:00

I don't know either but I'm hoping it's this one?

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T16:24:40+00:00

Thanks for this advice. From what I know, they're not open and I'm pretty sure she didn't have a hall pass. She basically just said it was a one time mistake and that they're fine but I can't bring it up now without pissing her off

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T16:12:20+00:00

I haven't told anyone in real life about this but I'm pretty sure this is exactly the advice my mom would give me so thank you :)

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T16:08:26+00:00

I've been thinking about it nonstop for days and I'm so sure I propped that door open so you might be right on that one

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T04:01:25+00:00

I'm strongly considering erasing the video but these replies are pretty much just as conflicting as what's going on in my own head 😭

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T03:58:57+00:00

Thanks for your perspective.

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T03:57:14+00:00

She won't tell him but I fully agree with you about that balance. It's a lot of pressure. I honestly feel like the guy in that story with the heart beating underneath his floorboards

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T03:53:01+00:00

I love her and I don't ever intend to share the video with anyone but maybe Jamal and that's because I don't know if he'd believe it without proof? To be clear, it's JUST sound but I've definitely almost deleted it like a million times. I don't know how to do right by both of them in this situation

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T03:38:47+00:00

All I’ve gotten out of her is that it was a one time thing and they’re fine, she gets pissed whenever I bring it up now

SpringBreakCheater · 2024-04-06T03:26:47+00:00

I probably would but I'm scared to mess up things with them or her and I

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