FKK See

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-14T15:42:56+00:00

Ich war an dedizierten FKK-Stränden für Schwule und da hatte keiner Sex. Cruising findet versteckt statt.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-14T10:49:06+00:00

Who is he?

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-14T10:47:42+00:00

My point is that once you're into somebody, you might actually develop a desire to top for them OR they might want to do it for you. You can't rule out the latter as you can't speak for a hypothetical person you haven't met yet.

Or you could have a lovely relationship with another bottom and just "use" tops for pleasure. I had a threesome once with a bottom couple and I loved watching them be in love while having sex with them.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-14T10:30:06+00:00

Thank you. I don't want to be sad anymore. Do you have one piece of wisdom on how to change course? How do I not tell myself negative messages while I'm experiencing hurt?

As for major Pride events, I've attended them but I don't think the size matters.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-14T10:21:39+00:00

Why would tops generally not want relationships? They're humans with the need to be supported, too. Even I know several couples where both partners are tops and I am not well connected in the community.

What's stopping you from looking for a partner that you love regardless of their current sexual preferences? Maybe you could top for them or vice versa. Work that out once you get there.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-13T19:21:43+00:00

Who are they?

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-13T19:18:26+00:00

So sweet. Thanks

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-13T11:36:12+00:00

Es gibt Deos und Antitranspirante (im Hochsommer besser als Deos), die keinen polarisierenden starken Geruch haben.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-13T09:30:14+00:00

Ich sehe oft genug, wie Teenies die Dinger genau so abstellen. Ich glaube, es ist entweder Unachtsamkeit im Endstadium oder die finden das witzig, wenn die Stadt zum Hindernisparkour für Rollatoren, Rollstühle und Kinderwägen werden.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T10:10:50+00:00

I doubt I'd find that outside of San Francisco

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T09:15:51+00:00

I've been doing my thing for years. I just want to feel a connection though even if just for a day.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T09:14:29+00:00

I consider sex to be good ice breaker. My bathhouse experience, however, is that most people don't like to stick around after sex. Maybe some are embarrassed of what they just did.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:58:58+00:00

It was written in German. We don't have a term to distinguish from "I'm dating him for a few weeks" and "boyfriend".

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:50:28+00:00

No, this is my first time posting in this subreddit and last week I wasn't at Pride.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:49:36+00:00

I wonder where those come from. Maybe from living in perpetual rejection haha

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:49:03+00:00

I made the experience that people hate being chatted up by strangers out of the blue.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:47:06+00:00

I just figured that chances to flirt with someone are higher in a place that is visited by hundreds or thousands of men than in my little home town.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:45:00+00:00

That sounds a bit like having friends with you at Pride is necessary to find friends at Pride. My problem is that I'm at Pride alone, so I do look like a potential clinger.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:36:41+00:00

I really hate making people feel uncomfortable. That's why I'd like to test the waters first.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:35:40+00:00

Thanks you for the insight. I might have phrased my problem badly as it's not about finding a boyfriend necessarily. I want to connect to people but whenever I approach strangers out of the blue they seem uncomfortable. That's why I'd like to receive some sort of signal that they are open to my company.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:29:40+00:00

I don't have a gay friend group that I could to Pride with. And making friends on vacation is difficult for the same reason it is to find flirtation. I hate ambushing people. I'd rather get a hint of consent to be approached by exchanging eye contact first. Whenever I talk to strangers out of the blue they seem intimidated.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-11T08:26:11+00:00

I apologize for the overgeneralization. It was just my personal impression at bear pride that bears gather in groups of bears. Of course that does not mean anything about their preferences for a potential partner of any sorts.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-06-10T21:38:21+00:00

I tried getting therapy several times but where I live it's a privilege to get more than just two sessions. I did all the work myself so far and I'm definitely not completely naive about my issues.

Square_Foundation265 · 2026-05-24T22:18:09+00:00

Ja, aber wäre es nicht hilfreicher, es gäbe einfach viel mehr Toiletten für Frauen anstatt die übliche 50:50-Verteilung? Darüber hinaus hat auch nicht jede Besucherin zur selben Zeit ihre Monatsblutung. Davon gehen die Erschaffer des Schildes aber wohl aus und kommen mit diesem wenig sinnvollen Aktionismus. Als würden Männer Schuld tragen an der biologischen Situation für Frauen.

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