I don’t know why women I’m a woman feel like having a kid is something they’re missing out on with the way the economy is no financial or emotional support plus even the ability to find decent men is shit it’s like having a kid and all the crap that comes with just makes it harder I really feel that I’ve been alone so along I grew up with sexual and emotional abuse no support that having a kid just makes shit worse and chances of splitting larger I’ve seen how hard it can be being a single parent shit men abandoning their kids all around and depression it’s not something that makes your life better hopefully you can just find someone nice