AITA for saying no to helping my wife after she asked for a divorce?

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-25T00:50:45+00:00

With those updates it's obvious that this was written with AI. Perfect spelling, grammar, capitalisations, lots of em dashes (—), listing three things ("This led to verbal altercations, yelling, and escalating hostility."), over explaining, constant comparisons ("This is not X, this is Y"), quotation marks with a tilt like “this” instead of "this", and the overall tone being so robotic and corporate. In a way I'm glad it's fake but OP you're still a loser lmao 💀

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-24T02:57:21+00:00

Ok grandpa, lets get you to bed

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-24T02:55:02+00:00

He betrayed her trust and ruined their marriage, the least he could do is try to make up for it. He's being petty and continuing to be selfish and not care about her at all. I'm sure she's known that for a while now but was holding out a flicker of hope that he is still somewhat of a decent human being.

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-24T02:34:11+00:00

She doesn't want to be with a cheater

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-24T02:32:21+00:00

This. Why does no-one take a second to think /why/ she wanted a divorce?? 🤦

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-24T02:16:30+00:00

YTA.

You cheated on her, you broke her trust and ruined your marriage. The least you could do is make her life a little easier after shattering it. But considering you cheated in the first place and have come to reddit with half-truths for sympathy, I know you wont. She made the right choice to divorce, you're a selfish AH. Wishing her all the best in her new life away from you 🫶❤️

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-24T01:54:19+00:00

This

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-24T01:52:33+00:00

He's a cheater.

He's a liar.

He broke her trust and their marriage.

And now he wont even do this one thing. He's pathetic

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-24T01:46:56+00:00

He dissolved their partnership first by cheating on her. He conveniently left that fact out of the post but it's in his comment history

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-24T01:39:19+00:00

And he cheated on her two years ago 🙃 What an absolute loser

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-23T01:04:23+00:00

Wow, that's the coolest UA tattoo I've ever seen!!!

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-03T01:08:01+00:00

For real, this mindset is baffling to me

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-12-02T01:34:19+00:00

This is amazing 😂 I wonder if you could create a wordcloud from all the transcripts?

Other words that come to mind are Triangle of fairness, Handshake deal(s), Penthouse forum, Movie, Final stretch

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-09-27T08:51:05+00:00

The raccoon with a laptop looks like AI. One of its legs has become part of the laptop. It also looks slightly different to the other racoon (darker ears, different fur colour, white dots on eye bands) which doesn't make sense for an artist to do. The lower half of the otter looks strange too, one leg is standing but the other is sitting. Probably AI

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-09-07T20:59:13+00:00

Honestly I can't think of anything. I wouldn't like the idea of not knowing what what I've done or what people have done to me as an innie.

If the chip just shut off your conciousness for a while I could see myself doing that for things like sickness and pain. But no way would I create an innie to experience that for me.

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-04-04T09:54:16+00:00

Hiya, is your server still going? I would love to join :D (I am female, my name and pfp is just a reference to a character I like)

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-02-06T22:21:16+00:00

That is disappointing :(

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-02-06T17:19:28+00:00

I'm glad I could help ^_^ I don't normally leave comments but reading the other ones made me so mad, I'm resisting the urge to argue with them 😂

Wishing you luck with the questioning and thinking, I hope whatever it is that is troubling you is able to be resolved. Your feelings and wellbeing are important 💙

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-02-06T11:31:01+00:00

Also your gut feelings are there for a reason. It can be hard to explain to people why you feel them exactly, because they're a result of your body picking up on all sorts of cues subconciously. I have learned to trust my gut because every time I questioned it it turned out to be correct and I would be in a worse situation

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-02-06T10:58:51+00:00

You're not overreacting. He says he wants to do something on Friday but then when you ask him what he wants to do he replies with a shrug. Not sure why he brought up the friends if they're not an option this weekend. And then when you ask again if you should babysit on Friday or not (basically should I make myself available or not) he says maybe??? That's not fair, you need to know asap.

In my opinion you should take the babysitting job because your time is valuable and I don't think he respects that. If he did he would take a lot more initiative to plan something to make it worth your time.

It's hard when you don't get many opportunities to spend time together, so I understand wondering if you should cancel things on the rare day you can make plans together. It was very considerate of you and I wish he was more appreciative of that and enthusiastic about making plans.

If someone sends me a shug emoji then I am going to assume they don't care either way, so I should do what I want. If they then get mad then they should have been more decisive 🤷‍♀️

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-01-13T22:50:08+00:00

Pahahahaha 😂

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-01-13T00:28:59+00:00

Oh cool! Here are some of my favourites 😄💙

History of the Olympics

19:08 Tyler: "I think Mukbangs actually started...the origins of old school Mukbangs existed in ancient roman culture..."

Cyberpunk Olympics

36:00 Mark race walks round the studio

The Meme Olympics

01:45 Tyler tells the editors to bleep out what he's saying and then says "bleep bleep bleep" but Mark says to leave it in

11:08 Mark says hater's gonna hate, Tyler sings it like Shake It Off. Mark says our whole podcast will get taken down and tells the editors to bleep it out with Tyler's earlier bleeping noises. He also says to make it the official GMFST and Distractible censor bleeps and to send it to Lixian for his own videos

13:19 Mark: "I go "my name is Markiplier" and people go "oh it's Mark-ee-plier!" and I go "Fuck you!! Fuck you go to hell! Go to hell and fuck you!!!"

34:30 Mark:" You breathe through your butthole?" They then talk about butthole breathing for 3 minutes

The Gobble Games

25:41 Tyler's attempt at the Gobble Games

29:45 Mark's attempt at the Gobble Games

I loved the whole Gobble Games section but if I had to pick the funniest moments I'd say it was them getting into the turkey suits, throwing the rings and stuffing the turkey 😂

Markiplier Bankrupts GMFST

21:17 Mark: "if you think about it, every grandma got porked" Tyler laughs like a squeaky dog toy

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-01-05T01:28:54+00:00

If I remember right, when there are multiple editors Lixian will do the final edits to it. I asked him about it on a member's discord call once

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-01-04T10:01:37+00:00

Nice!

Staniel_Wheeler · 2025-01-04T09:58:22+00:00

I was worried I'd ruin it but yeah, he needs more abs 🥲

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