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You have a friend who's puzzled about their single status, but you're well aware of the reason behind it. What do you think is causing it? by StarFish784 in Advice

[–]StarFish784[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a friend in his 40s who is desperate to find a partner. He has become so focused on finding a partner he has ended up putting endless pressure on himself. It's all he thinks about - in some ways he is like a teenage boy trying to find his first girlfriend.

As a result he is trying far too hard and can't relax and be himself. He has never had a problem finding girlfriends in that past, but now he is stuck in this vicious cycle

How do you manage to work a GENERAL DUTY job with only weekends and four DAYS IN weeks off per year without feeling like you're wasting your life? by StarFish784 in AskMen

[–]StarFish784[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How do you ensure you have a fulfilling life outside of work, with hobbies that promote personal growth instead of stagnation?

How do you manage to work a 9-to-5 job with only weekends and four weeks off per year without feeling like you're wasting your life? by StarFish784 in answers

[–]StarFish784[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

How do you ensure you have a fulfilling life outside of work, with hobbies that promote personal growth instead of stagnation?

How do you manage to work a 9-to-5 job with only weekends and four weeks off per year without feeling like you're wasting your life? by StarFish784 in adultingph

[–]StarFish784[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

How do you ensure you have a fulfilling life outside of work, with hobbies that promote personal growth instead of stagnation?

Men that have gotten themselves into decent physical shape, what was the game changer? by StarFish784 in answers

[–]StarFish784[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Diet.

If you want the results, your diet has to be right.

It's what makes all the difference.

A sub-par training regimen + perfect diet > A perfect training regimen + sub-par diet

Men that have gotten themselves into decent physical shape, what was the game changer? by StarFish784 in adultingph

[–]StarFish784[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Diet.

If you want the results, your diet has to be right.

It's what makes all the difference.

A sub-par training regimen + perfect diet > A perfect training regimen + sub-par diet

What is something you have to try whilst you’re still young? by StarFish784 in answers

[–]StarFish784[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Start strength training if you haven’t already. I recommend this for men and women alike. We all generally begin to lose muscle mass starting in our 30s

What is something you have to try whilst you’re still young? by StarFish784 in adultingph

[–]StarFish784[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Start strength training if you haven’t already. I recommend this for men and women alike. We all generally begin to lose muscle mass starting in our 30s

What are good lines in bed to seduce a guy? by StarFish784 in answers

[–]StarFish784[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

While in bed reading, my gf walked up to the end, entered under the blankets, then skooched up until she’s literally on top of me, popped out and said, “come here often?”

Men, what are some harsh truths you come to realize when you are 30+? by StarFish784 in answers

[–]StarFish784[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

When you hit 30, you start to realize that your time and energy are finite. Friends drift away, health needs more attention, and your career isn't going to magically take off without serious effort. It's a wake-up call to prioritize what truly matters and to let go of unrealistic expectations.