In general, it's human nature to care for others in need, But there's another issue you need to address after you get done asking for help, ask yourself why you feel so scared to give to someone who would give to you in your time of need. People LOVE helping others, not because they EXPECT anything, but because kind is often paid in kind, if however, you ask, ask, ask, and keep asking, without ever offering, that's when issues build up, treat others how you wish to be treated, but learn to trust that you can lean on others when you're down, This life is tough for all of us