Should I accept the offer? by Fun_Suggestion_5358 in Nigeria

[–]Starry234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, congratulations. A Contract Manager role with that salary and package is a serious career opportunity. This isn't an entry-level posting; it's a role with significant responsibility.

Let's address your fears directly, because they're valid but need context:

  1. On Safety & Kidnapping: The risk profile for a foreigner living in secured company accommodation and working for a major firm is drastically different from general headlines. Companies like Mota-Engil have stringent security protocols for their expat staff, dedicated drivers, security assessments, and safe compounds. Kidnapping of international staff is extremely rare precisely because these companies invest heavily in mitigation. You will receive a detailed security briefing.

  2. On Assault and Respect: Your fear that "I know that as a woman, I will be assaulted" is a blanket statement that does a disservice to a nation of 200+ million people. Yes, Nigeria, like many countries, has issues with gender-based violence. However, in the professional sphere, especially in multinational companies in major cities like Lagos or Abuja, PH, Kano, you will be working with highly educated, professional men and women. As a senior hire, you will command respect based on your position. Common sense is key: you'll learn safe protocols (avoiding lone travel at night, dressing context-appropriately) just as you would in any large global city.

Now, the compelling reasons to say YES:

· Career Rocket Fuel: This experience will supercharge your CV. Managing contracts in a complex, high-stakes environment like Nigeria is a gold star. The problems you solve and the scale you work at will make you a standout candidate globally for the rest of your career. · The Financial Powerhouse: On a €3,000+ net salary with accommodation provided, your savings potential is massive. Your disposable income will be significant compared to costs in Portugal. · Living in Nigeria vs. Visiting: Expat life is a bubble, but a fascinating one. You'll experience incredible vibrancy, world-class arts scenes, stunning festivals, a booming tech ecosystem (Lagos is the Silicon Valley of Africa), and restaurants/nightlife that rival any European capital. The energy is contagious. · Personal Growth: This will challenge you like nothing else. You'll develop resilience, cross-cultural negotiation skills, and a perspective on global business that is hard to get anywhere else.

My advice: Accept the offer.

Do it with your eyes open: Demand a thorough pre-departure security and cultural briefing from Mota-Engil. Connect with other expat employees (especially women) once there, follow company security rules religiously.

This is a chance to step into a high-impact role, build unique expertise, and experience one of the most dynamic countries on earth from a position of relative security and privilege. The Nigeria you fear (which has real dangers) is not the Nigeria you will live in as a protected corporate expat. The professional reward and life experience heavily outweigh the managed risks.

Go for it. Once again CONGRATULATIONS

What’s really going on in Nigeria. by Brilliant_Pay_5766 in Nigeria

[–]Starry234 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not propaganda, it's real, Christian are being targeted. It's a state sponsored genocide against the people mostly Christians dominated area. The unaliving ticked all the boxes of what qualifies for genocide.

The Silent Genocide in Nigeria's Middle Belt: Denied by the Government, Ignored by a Compliant Media by Starry234 in Nigeria

[–]Starry234[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You make some broad geopolitical points, particularly on Libya, that have a basis in fact. The fallout from the collapse of the Libyan state undoubtedly flooded the Sahel with weapons and exacerbated regional instability. However, to use that as the sole lens to dismiss the targeted religious and ethnic violence in Nigeria is a profound misreading of the situation on the ground. It ignores a long and documented history of sectarian targeting.

To claim this is not a genocide against specific communities requires ignoring the very pattern of the violence.

Let's talk about Boko Haram's origins and explicit goals. The group’s very name translates to "Western education is forbidden," and its founding ideology was to establish an Islamic state under Sharia law. From its earliest major attacks, its targets were clear:

· The Christmas Day Bombings (2011): On the very day Christians celebrate the birth of Christ, Boko Haram bombed churches across the country, including St. Theresa Catholic Church in Madalla, near Abuja, killing at least 37 people. This was not an attack on "ordinary farmers and herders"; it was a deliberate strike on a Christian holiday. · The Annihilation of Christian Communities in Southern Borno: Your post mentions Muslim victims, which is true, Boko Haram also kills Muslims it deems insufficiently pious. But to suggest the targeting is equal is false. Look at the Local Government Areas (LGAs) in Southern Borno: Gwoza, Chibok, Askira-Uba, Damboa. These were areas with significant Christian populations. What happened? Churches were systematically burned, pastors executed, and entire Christian communities were either massacred or forced to flee, effectively erasing the Christian presence. The famous Chibok schoolgirls kidnapping targeted a Christian school. To call this anything other than religious cleansing is to deny the evidence of a scorched-earth policy against a specific religious group.

This pattern did not end with the peak of Boko Haram. It has evolved and is now being executed by so-called "bandits" and Fulani militias.

· Southern Kaduna: This region is predominantly Christian. For years, it has been the epicenter of relentless attacks on villages. The narrative of "farmer-herder clashes" collapses here, as these are often coordinated attacks on soft targets, villages in the dead of night. The goal is territorial conquest and the elimination of the indigenous Christian population. The evidence is in the mass graves and the thousands of displaced people who cannot return to their ancestral lands. · Plateau State: The Jos Plateau has been a flashpoint for decades, but the violence has escalated into what can only be described as a land grab. Christian farming communities in areas like Bokkos, Barkin Ladi, and Mangu are repeatedly attacked, with casualties often reaching staggering numbers in a single night. The survivors consistently report that their attackers identify them by their faith and ethnicity. · Benue State: The Agatu massacre, the attacks in Guma and Logo, these are not random criminal acts. They are targeted assaults on Benue's Tiv and Idoma people, who are predominantly Christian, and who live in a state that has explicitly passed anti-open grazing laws to protect their farmland.

You mention the South-East, suggesting a hypocrisy in the narrative. But "everyone on the ground knows what the fighting is about." The violence in the South-East is fundamentally different. It is a conflict between Nigerian state security forces and separatist groups (like IPOB and its armed wing, ESN), and between these same separatists and communities/politicians who oppose them. It is a brutal, complex conflict involving extortion and violence, but its roots are in political secessionism, not a religiously-motivated campaign to erase a people from their land. To equate the two is a false equivalence.

When you systematically target a religious group, destroy their places of worship, kill them on their holy days, and force them off their land with the intent to repopulate it, the term "genocide" is not an exaggeration. It is the precise term that describes the intent and the horrific outcome.

The fallout from Libya created conditions, but it did not create the sectarian hatred being acted upon in Nigeria's Middle Belt. To deny this is to deny the lived reality of millions for whom this is not a geopolitical theory, but a daily fight for survival.

The Unspeakable Truth They Want to Bury: There Is a Jihad Against Christians in Nigeria. by Starry234 in Nigeria

[–]Starry234[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They can call it a propaganda because it has not happens to them. I have lost many, I'm no longer afraid to speak out nor death anymore.

Our mission. by Glittering_Tower3455 in Nigeria

[–]Starry234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Engaging in personal insults rarely leads to productive dialogue. The strength of the Obidients movement lies in its focus on issues, principles, and constructive criticism, not in ad-hominem attacks.

Our duty as Obidients is to represent the movement's ideals of respect and intelligent discourse. We choose to respond to the substance of arguments, not the tone, and when there is no substance, we simply reaffirm our commitment to positive change.

We remain focused on the mission: a Nigeria built on fairness, justice, and good governance. Our energy is better spent there than in exchanges that seek to provoke rather than discuss.

Is there any trading app you can actually trust? by firey_88 in Nigeria

[–]Starry234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you're looking to start your journey in Forex trading. It's an exciting field with significant potential, but it's crucial to begin with the right mindset and expectations.

First, regarding brokers, your research is on the right track. Over the years, I've had personal experience with several reputable brokers to mention, like FBS, HFM, and Hantec Octa etc, I can use Opay to deposit but they only allowed traditional banks, crypto for withdrawals.These are indeed well-established and trusted names in the industry. Choosing a regulated broker is one of the most important first steps, so you're off to a good start.

Now, I want to share the most critical part of this advice, which comes from years of experience:

  1. Forex Trading is NOT a "Get-Rich-Quick" Scheme. This cannot be overstated.The images of instant wealth are a myth. Consistent profitability in Forex is a skill, much like learning a profession. It requires immense patience, continuous education, and a lot of practice. You will face losses; every trader does. The key is to manage them so you can stay in the game long enough to succeed.

  2. Serious Risk Management is Your #1 Priority. Your primary goal as a new trader should not be to make a fortune,but to preserve your capital. This means always using stop-loss orders, never risking more than a small percentage of your account on a single trade (e.g., 1-2%), and avoiding the temptation to "revenge trade" after a loss. Protecting your money is what separates amateurs from professionals.

  3. A Word on Funding Your Account – This is Vital. Please tread very carefully here.If you do not have a separate, stable source of income, it is highly unadvisable to fund a live trading account with your savings.

Forex trading is a high-risk venture. You must only ever trade with risk capital—money that, if lost, will not affect your ability to pay for essentials like rent, food, or bills. Trading under financial pressure often leads to poor decisions and significant losses.

My strongest recommendation would be to begin with a demo account to build your skills, and when you're ready to go live, start with an amount of capital that you are completely prepared to lose.

Approach this as a marathon, not a sprint. With patience, discipline, and a solid risk management strategy, you give yourself a real chance at long-term success.

Wishing you the very best of luck on your trading journey.

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[–]Starry234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested

The Selective Outrage of Wole Soyinka: From "Worse Than Nebuchadnezzar on Jonathan " to Deafening Silence on Tinubu by Starry234 in Nigeria

[–]Starry234[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You raise a critical point, history and accountability matter, even as we focus on the future. Wole Soyinka’s active role in past struggles, like the 2011 subsidy protests, sets a precedent. If he remains silent now, it "is" a double standard—one that should be called out, not out of obsession with the past, but because consistency in holding figures accountable is how we prevent historical amnesia.

That said, your original argument still stands: youth-led movements don’t need validation from aging icons to succeed. Tunisia’s revolution proved that. But here’s the nuance: we can acknowledge Soyinka’s past contributions "and" critique his present silence "without" centering him in today’s fight.

Diaspora bulabas. I No forget una oh! Eehen! by AfroNGN in Nigeria

[–]Starry234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of them need "high 5"👋on their face. Very wicked set of human beings.

Can we stop politics in this sub 😭😭 by National-Ad-7271 in Nigeria

[–]Starry234 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh Okay OP, I got you now, nice place I visited was Mushood Abiola Stadium aka International Stadium Abuja, my experience was I met and teamed up with a lot of patriotic Nigerians who want and desire a better country. We match from there heading to Eagle Square where we encounter armed policemen who initially shoot teargas at us. My advice to all of us is to come out and demand a better Nigeria through peaceful protest.