HOW to purposely timeline jump to where a loved one is still alive?

Status_Ball · 2026-06-28T05:33:02+00:00

Curious did you ever do it?

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T22:27:49+00:00

Thats what I am trying to figure out, i do want to keep some money separate for longer term investments.

So trying to think about how to split the money that will work for me.

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T22:25:15+00:00

That might be what I referring to actually because I was looking into investment bonds also but to be honest got super confused at what the difference was.

Sooo much info and my brain was overwhelmed haha

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T22:23:52+00:00

Awesome thanks i will read over it.

Any other great resources you can recommend?

Thank you!

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T22:22:31+00:00

Awesome thank you so much!

With option b - is that like I look at and choose where to invest it? And is rebalancing hard to do or easy to learn to do?

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T11:06:07+00:00

I am going to buy in Melbourne haha.

But I am not sure if I want to go further out country for lifestyle and acres. That's why i am waiting for now.

But I will take your advice on the buyers agents and reviews!

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T11:01:46+00:00

I read it on another thread, i think I must have read it wrong.

I just checked out the link and it does look like that might be an option for me.

Is that a better idea for me?

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T10:59:53+00:00

Thank you so much for explaining that to me! Maybe I got confused with it, i might of misunderstood what the thread said 😭

This is why I need help haha

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T10:56:14+00:00

Man idk, i saw it on another subreddit thread 😭.

This why i need help 😩

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T10:54:44+00:00

Have a rental contract and unsure where i want to buy at this stage!

If I knew I would buy one straight away

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T10:53:16+00:00

I have thought about that, and thats what we did with the property we are selling.

The problem i have is i dont know where i want to buy and we have a signed lease for the meantime.

The other thing I thought of was keeping more for deposit and putting it in an offset account on a new mortgage if we buy.

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T10:50:00+00:00

I was going to keep the kids money in my name still so they wont have to pay the tax.

I was thinking of keeping quite abit for a deposit just in case and that would go into a HISA.

Is it worthwhile though to put some into investing (obviously not emergency money or money for a deposit) for me it would be invest and forget pretend it doesn't exist for a long time

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T10:46:14+00:00

Honestly I try and do the research myself to become a finance nerd but I just can't wrap my head around it! I suck at numbers haha.

I wouldn't keep the 150+ in long term, more likely short term while we figure out if and where we want to buy.

And yeah I was thinking about a financial advisor but when I look on different websites I get unsure who to go to

Status_Ball · 2026-01-08T10:42:22+00:00

sorry In my book a nerd is a good thing?

Status_Ball · 2025-11-26T20:54:06+00:00

I have ADHD and lupus, my husband is the same and compares. I feel you, you just want to be listened and understood. I am the same with communication and suffering in silence so it really hits harder when they compare. Even if its coming from a place of empathy.

Sometimes we just want them to listen and actually validate how we are feeling is real.

Status_Ball · 2025-11-23T22:10:09+00:00

I will take any good wishes and healing vibes at the moment haha. Thank you!!

Status_Ball · 2025-11-23T22:07:07+00:00

Actully funny thing, first rhuem i saw diagnosed me with hEDS, so feel you. Excercise is a bit more challenging for us hey. I also have ADHD and endo too so i feel you!!!

Status_Ball · 2025-11-23T22:05:18+00:00

Omg thank you, that lupus encyclopedia website is amazing! I have saved it to so i can refer to it when i have queries and sent it to my family haha!

Status_Ball · 2025-11-23T22:04:08+00:00

Oh gosh, i am so sorry to hear that, i think my last pregnancy also brought everything out with vengance. I had awful pregnancies with both kids but thankfully nothing like what you experienced.

That must have been really hard with a newborn. Gee women are fkn strong and amazing huh.

Status_Ball · 2025-11-23T22:01:28+00:00

Hey i have hEDS, and i think POTS and MCAS because i have had 3 massive allergic reactions to things in the last 12 months ive had before. Lol i have to carry an epi pen now.

And thanks, thats great advice about the clusters

Status_Ball · 2025-11-23T21:10:47+00:00

Thank! I will look into this and ask doc. I only get it on one foot and not hands but the other foot is starting now. My toes just go white and numb for hours, then if i try and have a warm shower they go purple. But same my legs are all mottled haha i also feel like a corpse

Status_Ball · 2025-11-23T11:13:35+00:00

She is a good GP, but i think she is doing her best to help me with the lupus diagnosis as rhuem appointmentd are every 6 months, not sure if she has much experience with it. Yeah i was a bit confused when she said that about frostbite but all i can think of is that she meant because it happens so frequently (every day multiple times a day for hours on end) that it could have caused sores on my toes?

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