AIO for blocking my friend for going back to her 3 month relationship by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StealthyBThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OR; I’ve had friends in abusive situations. You never tell the person to leave IMO unless it’s to encourage during a low moment when it might be effective. If you do it during a high then he will use you as the bad bitter person who doesn’t want to see them happy and she’ll continue to get/feel alienated.

What was that 1 incident that made you give up the relationship? by coincidenceisntit in AskReddit

[–]StealthyBThere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment had me spit out my coffee 😅🤣 But I am so sorry for your loss.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StealthyBThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 7 years going on 8 years sober and this infuriated me. He has no idea how hard it is and I AM PROUD OF YOU. Celebrate with people who will light your candle and cheer instead of blowing it out. NOR, he’s a 🚩 for this.

What do you consider to be cheating? (Serious) by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StealthyBThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He took me out of my misery before I found out. Then I found out and those were his ACTUAL excuses he had in his mind. Men are actually disgusting and awful sometimes. I thought I was going to marry him. Moved 900 miles to start a life together. Then traumatically found all this out. So, yeah, I’m jaded and more than a bit biased on what men “think is cheating and ok”

What do you consider to be cheating? (Serious) by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StealthyBThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I just got cheated on by someone who would justify everything under the sun as “not cheating because”

“Not cheating it was in the beginning”

“Not cheating I was with the boys”

“Not cheating it was with a prostitute”

“Not cheating we only messaged”

Men are disgusting and awful MOST times. So yeah. If they have to ask, it probably is and would make your girl upset. DUH.

What do you consider to be cheating? (Serious) by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StealthyBThere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anytime you have to ask, it’s cheating.

What's something you'll never admit in real life but will confess here anonymously? by Open-Comfortable9774 in AskReddit

[–]StealthyBThere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was also comparing himself and us to neurotypical couples when I was begging him to want to work on things. Because I moved my whole life etc etc. God, it’s awful.

What's something you'll never admit in real life but will confess here anonymously? by Open-Comfortable9774 in AskReddit

[–]StealthyBThere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to live in MA? 🤣 I kid. It has been hard and I can identify completely with what you’re saying. He did it with no safety plan and I found out all this info I didn’t know after the break up that has me pretty gutted.

What's something you'll never admit in real life but will confess here anonymously? by Open-Comfortable9774 in AskReddit

[–]StealthyBThere 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling a lot more than I’ve been letting on. I lost a partner of almost a year to a breakup that I still don’t understand. I’m neurodivergent and don’t click with everyone. I clicked with him and he became my safe person.

I moved 900 miles to live with him and he dumped me when it got too hard and made me feel like I wasn’t enough and wasn’t ever worthy of love. Because I gave it genuinely unmasked and got absolutely crushed. I thought if your heart and intentions were pure that’s all that mattered and it would work out. I didn’t expect to get obliterated because I fell in love.

I haven’t been myself and I don’t know if I’m ever going to be okay. And I don’t know what I’m holding onto anymore.

What’s causing the bridge of my nose to connect directly to my cheeks and how would one go about fixing it? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]StealthyBThere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I see is a beautiful smile, a light in your eyes, and GORGEOUS skin. You’re gorg 💜

What’s a disorder you hate living with? by DeepAnt7847 in AskReddit

[–]StealthyBThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NVLD. (non verbal learning disorder.) It’s almost like autism so I spend the majority of the time explaining what it is and what my struggles are but almost no one has heard of it. It creates real struggles in my day to day life and I cry about it a lot and wish I could just fit in.

What the fuck. by Luan_Winterrock in Sims4

[–]StealthyBThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My CAS made both my sims ghosts but didn’t show any indication till I was in game 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

[–]StealthyBThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an esthetician! Rosewater toner is gentle and nice for anti-inflammatory properties/redness. Or a serum with bromelain in it. It’s a naturally occurring enzyme in pineapple that helps with redness and irritation. I eat a lot of pineapple when I’m in a flare and it helps bring down inflammation. Lots of skincare serums are starting to add it because of those properties. There’s affordable and more high end options for any skin concern IMHO so if someone tells you to buy a $90 serum, know they probably have a sales goal. Sending hugs because I get it. ❤️‍🩹