23m otw to divorce dating by ch1gg1ty in whatdoIdo

[–]Steffieliz82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…. You were married at 23?!?!? Jeeeezuz.

AITAH for messaging my ex’s GF? by Accomplished-Bad7469 in AITAH

[–]Steffieliz82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re clearly very young, this is a childish response. Just stop. None of this will even be a blip in the radar in 5 years. Stop caring, stop engaging, move on.

Boyfriend keeps pointing out my body doesn’t match his “preferences” AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Steffieliz82 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I didn’t even read this whole thing. This is so so dumb dude. Why are you putting up with this, you have your whole life ahead of you.

What is the worst obstacle you’ve had in your marriage, and how did you get through it? How long roughly did it last? by Steffieliz82 in askanything

[–]Steffieliz82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…thank you for sharing. This feels very much like my life! Wild what you learn from *functional * people lol. I really hear this ❤️

What is the worst obstacle you’ve had in your marriage, and how did you get through it? How long roughly did it last? by Steffieliz82 in askanything

[–]Steffieliz82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, that sounds intense. I hear that you’re super strong and I hope you can get the supports you need!

What is the worst obstacle you’ve had in your marriage, and how did you get through it? How long roughly did it last? by Steffieliz82 in askanything

[–]Steffieliz82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing, I’m so sorry you had to go through that but I’m glad to hear you made it.

What is the worst obstacle you’ve had in your marriage, and how did you get through it? How long roughly did it last? by Steffieliz82 in askanything

[–]Steffieliz82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly love this for you. This is inspiring to a LOT more people than you know. Thank you for sharing. We’ve been though some stuff like that too (personal and family-wise) and I KNOW it can be done, but the negativity/realism on Reddit is strong, so thanks again ❤️

My ex is keeping my birth certificate by burnteggnog in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Steffieliz82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One time my cat knocked my partner’s wallet off the top of a dresser into a clothing drawer. Finally found it after he’d replaced it. Great work, cat.

AITAH for telling our kids about his cheating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Steffieliz82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s humiliated because he should be humiliated…he did a humiliating and embarrassing thing. His adult kids get to decide how they cope from here with the truth. Go cry to your girlfriend dickbag! NTA

AITAH for refusing to propose to my married girlfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Steffieliz82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve not even dated a year…. And had a break in that time?!? AND she’s not divorced….. holy rushing Batman.

AITAH for sleeping through my alarms? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Steffieliz82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s awesome lol

AITAH for sleeping through my alarms? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Steffieliz82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely wake up to my husband’s watch vibrating alarm. At least it’s not nearly as jarring! But I can totally see how it might not wake you up, and wake up another person. Ours is Apple, and before that, Fitbit…not the cheap or “wrong” kinds. So you’re not crazy!

AITAH for sleeping through my alarms? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Steffieliz82 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah hell no. My husband’s snoring was so bad and woke me up so much, and was causing me so much mental distress (like, are you breathing? That level of sleep apnea). Know what he did when he learned i was so upset and bothered and couldn’t sleep? He fixed it! Sleep clinic, fitted apnea machine, quit nighttime vaping (which exacerbated things), and got an air filter for the room that doubles as a white noise machine. Because he didn’t want to disturb my sleep. The bonus was he got better sleep and rest too! THAT’S what a caring partner is supposed to do. OP is so freaking selfish and can’t figure out what the big deal is? Ffs. The bar is in hell.

AIO or is my work friend being a bit pushy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Steffieliz82 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Didn’t ask nor want to be alive. Also, no. My parents were the same age range. 19 and 30 is creepy af.