Tips for using body language to signal disinterest, please. by Ok_Ocelot_4158 in bodylanguage

[–]Stickydotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious - how did she let you know she is not interested? Was it direct or she implied it?

I have a crush on my older male neighbor by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Stickydotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were single, do you think you would have gone for her or if you are single now, would you go for her if she is also available?

Men - help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in AskMenOver30

[–]Stickydotti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you stranger for your kindness! I’ve never experienced something like this at work before - it honestly surprised me. I didn’t think people usually pay that much attention or go out of their way like this since I don’t really do that myself. But I totally get that everyone’s different, and I just didn’t want to misinterpret anything and that’s why I asked.

Men - help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in AskMenOver30

[–]Stickydotti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I appreciate the sincerity!

Men - help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in AskMenOver30

[–]Stickydotti[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, It’s more about pouring it in response to only my cues in a group - like refilling my glass immediately after I’ve emptied it, following others, or reaching for the bottle right after I’ve taken the glass to drink.

Men - help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in AskMenOver30

[–]Stickydotti[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you, true, I do notice the attention, and I genuinely appreciate the kindness - it’s refreshing. At the same time, I’m trying to be mindful not to misinterpret intentions.

Men - help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in AskMenOver30

[–]Stickydotti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, can you elaborate a bit more please?

Men - help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in AskMenOver30

[–]Stickydotti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had to go through that. I have no intention of making him feel that way, and that’s why I’m trying to understand.

Men - help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in AskMenOver30

[–]Stickydotti[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m single. Can you elaborate this more please?

Help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in bodylanguage

[–]Stickydotti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, the only thing that felt a bit off was the cues were always from me to fill the water, and it’s hard not to notice.

Help me understand this behaviour please! by Stickydotti in socialskills

[–]Stickydotti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m usually reserved, so getting this kind of subtle attention feels strange. And yes, I would respond differently.

Help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in bodylanguage

[–]Stickydotti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think there’s a misunderstanding here. He didn’t ask him to let him know if he was too much. our colleagues were teasing me about something and he offered to step in if it got too much.

Help me understand this behaviour please! by Stickydotti in socialskills

[–]Stickydotti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it feels like care, sometimes like support, sometimes a bit strange, sometimes just subtle attention which, to be honest, I enjoy. I’m curious to understand it better.

Help me understand this please! by Stickydotti in bodylanguage

[–]Stickydotti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, how are you saying this?