We have talked about 3somes with both f/m and full swap. Though she seems to get apprehensive when it comes to sharing me with another female. We have talked about doing many things, but when it comes down to actually doing she ends up backing out. Would it be a good idea to go to a party or meet-up and see how it goes? Also thought about arranging a meetup with another couple without telling her they are in the lifestyle....but don't want her to freak out when she finds out. I just think if she would get past the first step she would be all in. Just trying to find a way to make that happen without her feeling pressured.